1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,075 2 00:00:07,083 --> 00:00:19,012 [music] 3 00:00:19,017 --> 00:00:26,029 4 00:00:26,033 --> 00:00:28,038 All right, Mars Hill, we continue in Luke's Gospel. 5 00:00:28,046 --> 00:00:34,012 We're in Luke 7:28-35, the second of a two-part series 6 00:00:34,017 --> 00:00:36,058 looking at John the Baptizer. 7 00:00:36,067 --> 00:00:40,025 And as we look at his life, and examine his life, 8 00:00:40,033 --> 00:00:43,025 it gives us an opportunity to not only learn vicariously 9 00:00:43,033 --> 00:00:45,075 from his life, but to examine our own. 10 00:00:45,083 --> 00:00:50,000 And what we find today is one of the most extraordinary lives 11 00:00:50,008 --> 00:00:52,038 that was ever lived, in relation to Jesus, 12 00:00:52,046 --> 00:00:55,008 in the history of the world, and by God's grace, 13 00:00:55,017 --> 00:00:56,062 we would aspire to the same thing, 14 00:00:56,067 --> 00:01:01,004 a life of greatness in relation to Jesus. 15 00:01:01,012 --> 00:01:02,050 And regarding John, here is, in fact, 16 00:01:02,058 --> 00:01:06,096 what his cousin Jesus had to say regarding him. 17 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,050 Luke 7:28, "I tell you, among those born of women none is 18 00:01:10,054 --> 00:01:12,079 greater than John." 19 00:01:12,083 --> 00:01:15,042 This is an extraordinary statement from Jesus. 20 00:01:15,050 --> 00:01:17,050 You'll find a little later in Luke 7, 21 00:01:17,058 --> 00:01:19,071 that some of John's critics, in fact, 22 00:01:19,079 --> 00:01:22,033 said that he was demon possessed. 23 00:01:22,042 --> 00:01:26,088 The opinions and estimations of John varied wildly, 24 00:01:26,096 --> 00:01:33,075 but what really counts is Jesus' estimation of one's life, 25 00:01:33,083 --> 00:01:35,033 and that's what we learn from John. 26 00:01:35,042 --> 00:01:36,079 People can say whatever they like, 27 00:01:36,083 --> 00:01:39,033 it's what Jesus says about your life, 28 00:01:39,038 --> 00:01:42,067 mine, and John's that truly matters. 29 00:01:42,075 --> 00:01:45,067 And Jesus says that apart from his own life, 30 00:01:45,071 --> 00:01:52,079 the greatest person who has, or will, live is John the Baptizer, 31 00:01:52,083 --> 00:01:54,042 which is a curious statement because this statement 32 00:01:54,050 --> 00:01:57,083 is made during the reign of a man named Herod. 33 00:01:57,092 --> 00:02:01,038 He was the king and his nickname was Herod the Great. 34 00:02:01,046 --> 00:02:04,050 Jesus says, in fact, that John is greater than Herod. 35 00:02:04,054 --> 00:02:07,008 But unlike Herod, John is poor. 36 00:02:07,017 --> 00:02:08,017 He is not rich. 37 00:02:08,021 --> 00:02:10,029 He is very rural, not urban. 38 00:02:10,033 --> 00:02:12,008 He is very simple. 39 00:02:12,017 --> 00:02:15,046 He did not come from a premier family. 40 00:02:15,050 --> 00:02:19,038 He came from a humble family, yet, 41 00:02:19,046 --> 00:02:22,017 John is the greatest man who ever lived. 42 00:02:22,021 --> 00:02:25,092 And what I would tell you is there is such a thing as godly, 43 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:29,083 holy, redeemed ambition, not a selfish pride, 44 00:02:29,088 --> 00:02:34,038 but a desire to make your life count, to invest it wisely, 45 00:02:34,046 --> 00:02:37,058 to pour it out for Jesus nobly. 46 00:02:37,067 --> 00:02:40,017 And John serves as a great example of that kind 47 00:02:40,025 --> 00:02:43,033 of redeemed, humble ambition. 48 00:02:43,042 --> 00:02:46,025 He lives his life aggressively, passionately, 49 00:02:46,033 --> 00:02:48,054 purposefully for Jesus, 50 00:02:48,062 --> 00:02:52,029 and Jesus declares his life to be the greatest. 51 00:02:52,033 --> 00:02:55,062 And we'll examine today four aspects of John's greatness. 52 00:02:55,067 --> 00:02:57,058 The first is this: John was great 53 00:02:57,067 --> 00:03:01,021 because he called people to repentance. 54 00:03:01,029 --> 00:03:04,017 Luke 7:29-30, "(When all the people heard this," 55 00:03:04,025 --> 00:03:08,067 Jesus' summary of John's life, 56 00:03:08,071 --> 00:03:11,000 "And the tax collectors too," those are the crooks, 57 00:03:11,008 --> 00:03:13,042 "They declared God just," or right and good, 58 00:03:13,050 --> 00:03:16,071 "Having been baptized with the baptism of John, but--" 59 00:03:16,079 --> 00:03:18,012 here come the religious guys, 60 00:03:18,017 --> 00:03:21,038 "The Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the purpose of God 61 00:03:21,046 --> 00:03:24,092 for themselves, not having been baptized by him.)" 62 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,025 So John comes in the line of the Old Testament prophets, 63 00:03:28,033 --> 00:03:33,042 and he is proclaiming, "Repent, repent, repent of sin." 64 00:03:33,050 --> 00:03:37,050 Some receive this message, publicly identify themselves 65 00:03:37,058 --> 00:03:42,000 as sinners, and come to the river to be baptized by John, 66 00:03:42,008 --> 00:03:46,000 showing that they need to be cleansed from sin, 67 00:03:46,004 --> 00:03:48,050 as water cleanses from filth, 68 00:03:48,054 --> 00:03:52,083 all foreshowing the forthcoming of the resurrection of Jesus 69 00:03:52,088 --> 00:03:54,083 in our place, for our sins. 70 00:03:54,088 --> 00:03:58,029 Others do not receive this message, they reject it. 71 00:03:58,033 --> 00:04:01,067 These are the religious types, and they're offended to hear 72 00:04:01,071 --> 00:04:04,071 that they are sinners, and they are offended to be invited 73 00:04:04,079 --> 00:04:08,079 into the baptismal waters of the river, along with those 74 00:04:08,083 --> 00:04:12,054 who are thieves, and crooks, and perverts, and murderers. 75 00:04:12,062 --> 00:04:16,042 They feel as religious people wrongly do, that they are good, 76 00:04:16,050 --> 00:04:18,092 while others are bad, and they do not want to be associated 77 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,050 with those who are sinful. 78 00:04:21,054 --> 00:04:23,050 And so herein, in John's ministry, 79 00:04:23,058 --> 00:04:27,075 there are two mega themes of our faith that I really want you, 80 00:04:27,083 --> 00:04:31,021 need you to understand-- sin and repentance. 81 00:04:31,029 --> 00:04:33,000 Christians often use these words, 82 00:04:33,004 --> 00:04:36,042 "sin" and "repentance" without defining them, 83 00:04:36,050 --> 00:04:39,017 which can lead to some confusion. 84 00:04:39,025 --> 00:04:41,046 And if you don't understand sin and repentance, 85 00:04:41,050 --> 00:04:43,092 the Bible truly makes no sense, 86 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:48,017 and your life, in addition, makes no sense. 87 00:04:48,025 --> 00:04:50,062 And so we'll take these in succession. 88 00:04:50,067 --> 00:04:53,088 John is calling people to repent of sin. 89 00:04:53,096 --> 00:04:56,071 Sin is a mega theme of your Bible. 90 00:04:56,079 --> 00:04:59,096 The Bible speaks of it with a constellation of images, 91 00:05:00,008 --> 00:05:03,071 and metaphors, and analogies, and words. 92 00:05:03,079 --> 00:05:06,050 Cornelius Plantinga wrote a great book called, 93 00:05:06,058 --> 00:05:10,033 "Not the Way It's Supposed to Be: A Breviary of Sin." 94 00:05:10,042 --> 00:05:13,083 And he defines sin in this way: "The Bible presents sin by way 95 00:05:13,088 --> 00:05:18,012 "of major concepts, principally, lawlessness and faithlessness, 96 00:05:18,017 --> 00:05:20,092 "expressed in an array of images. 97 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,067 "Sin is the missing of a target, a wandering from the path, 98 00:05:23,071 --> 00:05:25,071 "a straying from the fold. 99 00:05:25,079 --> 00:05:27,088 "Sin is a hard heart, and a stiff neck. 100 00:05:27,096 --> 00:05:30,025 "Sin is blindness and deafness. 101 00:05:30,033 --> 00:05:32,017 "It is both the overstepping of a line, 102 00:05:32,021 --> 00:05:33,075 "and the failure to reach it. 103 00:05:33,083 --> 00:05:36,033 "Both transgression and shortcoming. 104 00:05:36,038 --> 00:05:38,092 "Sin is a beast crouching at the door. 105 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,083 "In sin, people attack, or evade, or neglect 106 00:05:41,092 --> 00:05:43,038 "their divine calling. 107 00:05:43,046 --> 00:05:46,021 "These and other images suggest deviance. 108 00:05:46,029 --> 00:05:49,054 "Even when it is familiar, sin is never normal. 109 00:05:49,062 --> 00:05:53,012 "Sin is disruption of created harmony, and then resistance 110 00:05:53,017 --> 00:05:56,092 "to divine restoration of that harmony. 111 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:59,038 "Above all, sin disrupts and resists 112 00:05:59,046 --> 00:06:02,050 the vital human relation to God." 113 00:06:02,054 --> 00:06:03,088 Sin is going too far. 114 00:06:03,096 --> 00:06:05,038 It's not going far enough. 115 00:06:05,046 --> 00:06:07,038 It's a hard heart, a stiff neck. 116 00:06:07,046 --> 00:06:11,000 Sin is living your life with anyone or anything other than 117 00:06:11,008 --> 00:06:14,000 the God of the Bible as the center of your identity, 118 00:06:14,004 --> 00:06:16,033 and the source of your joy. 119 00:06:16,042 --> 00:06:21,067 Sin is what we think, what we feel, what we do. 120 00:06:21,075 --> 00:06:24,038 It is what we fail to think, feel, and do. 121 00:06:24,046 --> 00:06:26,083 Sin is commission, where we do that which is evil. 122 00:06:26,092 --> 00:06:31,046 It is also omission, where we fail to do that which is right. 123 00:06:31,050 --> 00:06:34,088 Sin is not just action, it's also conditioned. 124 00:06:34,096 --> 00:06:37,075 We are sinners by nature and choice. 125 00:06:37,083 --> 00:06:40,067 The Bible says, in fact, from our mother's womb. 126 00:06:40,075 --> 00:06:43,017 It's all the way down in the roots. 127 00:06:43,021 --> 00:06:47,042 Sin is the human problem that leads to all of the -isms: 128 00:06:47,050 --> 00:06:50,071 racism, classism. 129 00:06:50,079 --> 00:06:54,029 All of that is the result of sin. 130 00:06:54,033 --> 00:06:58,071 But sin is the root problem, and we can trace all of the effects. 131 00:06:58,079 --> 00:07:01,083 And if we don't get to the root of the problem, which is sin, 132 00:07:01,088 --> 00:07:07,046 our lives, our cultures, our world never changes. 133 00:07:07,050 --> 00:07:11,054 And so John is going right to the heart of the matter 134 00:07:11,062 --> 00:07:13,012 with his preaching. 135 00:07:13,017 --> 00:07:16,038 He's addressing the issue of sin, and he is commanding, 136 00:07:16,046 --> 00:07:20,025 compelling people to repent of sin. 137 00:07:20,033 --> 00:07:23,000 This is a very significant word at Mars Hill, 138 00:07:23,008 --> 00:07:26,025 you'll hear the word "repent" a lot, and the word "sin" a lot. 139 00:07:26,033 --> 00:07:30,000 And if I might be so bold, it's not popular today 140 00:07:30,008 --> 00:07:33,062 to talk about sin, and it's certainly not popular 141 00:07:33,067 --> 00:07:36,058 to talk about repentance. 142 00:07:36,067 --> 00:07:38,079 It's okay to talk about other people's sin, 143 00:07:38,083 --> 00:07:42,050 but not your sin, and to not call you to repent of sin, 144 00:07:42,058 --> 00:07:44,067 but to enable sin. 145 00:07:44,071 --> 00:07:48,067 And John stands against a whole nation, saying that 146 00:07:48,075 --> 00:07:51,083 their problem is sin, and their answer is repentance. 147 00:07:51,092 --> 00:07:53,067 And so we're going to spend a bit of time 148 00:07:53,071 --> 00:07:55,075 looking at repentance. 149 00:07:55,083 --> 00:07:59,029 I'm going to sit down because I am old, and I have the flu. 150 00:07:59,033 --> 00:08:01,042 I do, and someday I'll have a resurrection body, 151 00:08:01,050 --> 00:08:04,062 and I will not have the flu. 152 00:08:04,067 --> 00:08:08,071 So let me explain to you what repentance is and is not. 153 00:08:08,079 --> 00:08:12,000 And for some of you, this will be completely new, 154 00:08:12,008 --> 00:08:13,033 you've never heard this. 155 00:08:13,038 --> 00:08:16,058 For others of you, this will be information that you've got 156 00:08:16,067 --> 00:08:19,038 bits and pieces of throughout the course of your life. 157 00:08:19,046 --> 00:08:22,046 For some of you, this will be revisiting things that 158 00:08:22,050 --> 00:08:26,033 I've taught you before, but maybe you still need to do. 159 00:08:26,038 --> 00:08:29,050 And for the rest of you, maybe you do know and practice 160 00:08:29,058 --> 00:08:32,012 repentance, and this will help clarify your ability 161 00:08:32,017 --> 00:08:34,038 to counsel others. 162 00:08:34,046 --> 00:08:38,033 I want you to pay attention, this is really important stuff. 163 00:08:38,042 --> 00:08:40,058 If you don't know what to do with sin, 164 00:08:40,067 --> 00:08:42,000 you'll ruin your life, 165 00:08:42,004 --> 00:08:45,012 and destroy anyone who is connected to you. 166 00:08:45,017 --> 00:08:46,075 It's that big of a deal. 167 00:08:46,083 --> 00:08:50,088 So, true repentance is not religious repentance. 168 00:08:50,096 --> 00:08:55,000 Religious repentance is this: 169 00:08:55,004 --> 00:08:57,033 "I see your sin, not my own. 170 00:08:57,038 --> 00:09:00,017 "I confess your sin, not my own. 171 00:09:00,025 --> 00:09:03,000 "I'm really unhappy with your sin, 172 00:09:03,008 --> 00:09:06,079 but I'm not really troubled by my own." 173 00:09:06,083 --> 00:09:09,008 It's because religious people tend to think that they are 174 00:09:09,017 --> 00:09:10,092 self-righteous, and pious, and holy, 175 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,079 and better than everyone else. 176 00:09:12,083 --> 00:09:15,075 The result is that they think they are good, 177 00:09:15,083 --> 00:09:17,050 and everyone else is bad. 178 00:09:17,054 --> 00:09:19,058 And religious people like to busybody, and gossip, 179 00:09:19,067 --> 00:09:21,058 and neatnik, and nitpick, 180 00:09:21,067 --> 00:09:24,000 and just be a perennial pain in the Levi's. 181 00:09:24,004 --> 00:09:26,008 That's what religious people do. 182 00:09:26,017 --> 00:09:28,096 And the way this works is they're always glad to talk 183 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:30,079 about all the things you've done wrong, 184 00:09:30,083 --> 00:09:33,033 but they never say things like, "It was my fault. 185 00:09:33,042 --> 00:09:34,071 "I'm sorry. 186 00:09:34,079 --> 00:09:37,029 I was wrong." 187 00:09:37,033 --> 00:09:40,033 Some of you are married to that person, I apologize. 188 00:09:40,042 --> 00:09:44,017 And you can nudge them, and now they can pay attention. 189 00:09:44,021 --> 00:09:48,021 Jesus gives a story of two people going into the temple, 190 00:09:48,029 --> 00:09:51,017 the Old Testament equivalent of the church, 191 00:09:51,025 --> 00:09:55,050 and one prays with haughty eyes and head held high, 192 00:09:55,054 --> 00:09:56,067 full of pride. 193 00:09:56,075 --> 00:09:58,067 "God, thank you that I'm not like other men. 194 00:09:58,075 --> 00:10:00,079 "Thank you that I'm better than they are. 195 00:10:00,083 --> 00:10:04,058 Thank you that I don't do all these horrible things." 196 00:10:04,067 --> 00:10:07,092 He's confessing someone else's sin. 197 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:09,067 A second man in the story goes in, 198 00:10:09,075 --> 00:10:12,079 and he's not filled with pride, he's filled with grief. 199 00:10:12,083 --> 00:10:13,083 And he looks to the ground. 200 00:10:13,088 --> 00:10:15,088 He can't even raise his eyes, and he simply declares, 201 00:10:15,096 --> 00:10:17,021 "God, have mercy on me. 202 00:10:17,029 --> 00:10:18,038 I'm a sinner." 203 00:10:18,046 --> 00:10:21,050 He's dealing with his own sin, not anyone else's sin. 204 00:10:21,054 --> 00:10:24,017 He's filled with humility, and not pride. 205 00:10:24,025 --> 00:10:25,067 And Jesus says, "I tell you the truth, this man, 206 00:10:25,071 --> 00:10:27,058 "and not the other, left justified, 207 00:10:27,067 --> 00:10:31,050 declared righteous in the sight of God." 208 00:10:31,054 --> 00:10:38,033 Religious people are notorious for overlooking their own sin, 209 00:10:38,042 --> 00:10:39,083 and talking about everyone else's, 210 00:10:39,088 --> 00:10:42,062 sometimes couching it in the form of a prayer request, 211 00:10:42,067 --> 00:10:46,096 so that it looks particularly holy when it's not. 212 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:49,075 Real repentance is not pagan repentance, 213 00:10:49,083 --> 00:10:52,029 and I tell you these false forms because there are many 214 00:10:52,033 --> 00:10:53,083 counterfeits of repentance. 215 00:10:53,088 --> 00:10:57,008 One of the aspects that distinguishes paganism from 216 00:10:57,017 --> 00:11:00,012 Christianity is the Bible says that God is good, 217 00:11:00,017 --> 00:11:03,012 and we don't need to make God be good. 218 00:11:03,017 --> 00:11:04,046 He just is. 219 00:11:04,050 --> 00:11:06,021 Paganism assumes that God isn't good, 220 00:11:06,029 --> 00:11:09,000 and we have to manipulate God, as if we could, 221 00:11:09,004 --> 00:11:11,067 to make God be good. 222 00:11:11,075 --> 00:11:15,033 And so paganism and pagan repentance is, "So if I tell God 223 00:11:15,038 --> 00:11:17,033 I'm sorry, then he has to do something for me." 224 00:11:17,038 --> 00:11:20,025 So examples would be, "I know I shouldn't be dating this person, 225 00:11:20,033 --> 00:11:21,083 "but if I tell God I'm sorry, 226 00:11:21,092 --> 00:11:25,050 "then he's obligated to save them, and make it all better. 227 00:11:25,054 --> 00:11:26,075 "I know that I've done a bad thing, 228 00:11:26,083 --> 00:11:29,021 "but if I tell God I'm sorry, then he's obligated to cover 229 00:11:29,029 --> 00:11:33,096 "for me, and not let my sin get caught and found out. 230 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:37,033 "If I tell God I'm sorry, then he has to heal me. 231 00:11:37,038 --> 00:11:40,000 "If I tell God I'm sorry, then he has to bless me. 232 00:11:40,004 --> 00:11:43,017 If I tell God I'm sorry, then he has to prosper me." 233 00:11:43,025 --> 00:11:45,062 God is sovereign, and free, and good. 234 00:11:45,067 --> 00:11:51,054 God cannot be manipulated, and God is not obligated to anyone. 235 00:11:51,062 --> 00:11:56,012 Additionally, true repentance is not worldly sorrow. 236 00:11:56,017 --> 00:11:59,021 Paul tells this to the Corinthians. 237 00:11:59,029 --> 00:12:02,062 He says, "I perceive that you have worldly sorrow," 238 00:12:02,067 --> 00:12:05,029 or some of your translations will say, "worldly grief," 239 00:12:05,033 --> 00:12:09,000 and that is because non-Christians can feel bad. 240 00:12:09,004 --> 00:12:10,033 I talked to a guy not long ago. 241 00:12:10,038 --> 00:12:12,033 He said, "I feel bad. Why is that?" 242 00:12:12,042 --> 00:12:14,062 Answer: you're bad. 243 00:12:14,067 --> 00:12:16,067 You feel bad because you're bad. 244 00:12:16,075 --> 00:12:19,004 Now it all makes sense, doesn't it? 245 00:12:19,012 --> 00:12:23,021 Don't need to dig for some deep psychological investigation. 246 00:12:23,029 --> 00:12:26,025 You feel bad because you're bad. 247 00:12:26,033 --> 00:12:27,075 God gave you a conscience. 248 00:12:27,083 --> 00:12:29,062 We're his image bearers. 249 00:12:29,067 --> 00:12:31,038 It's a moral rudder. 250 00:12:31,046 --> 00:12:33,096 We can grieve, quench, resist the Holy Spirit, 251 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:36,038 but the Holy Spirit works through our conscience, 252 00:12:36,046 --> 00:12:40,029 Jesus promised he would, to convict us of sin. 253 00:12:40,033 --> 00:12:43,071 We also know of our sin from the Bible, and Bible teaching, 254 00:12:43,079 --> 00:12:46,033 and godly friends. 255 00:12:46,042 --> 00:12:49,033 And what happens in worldly sorrow, or grief, 256 00:12:49,042 --> 00:12:54,092 is we feel bad, but we don't change. 257 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:56,062 You just feel bad. 258 00:12:56,067 --> 00:12:59,083 And what can even happen in culture is that we set up this 259 00:12:59,088 --> 00:13:03,075 false religion, with false prophets, and pastors, 260 00:13:03,083 --> 00:13:07,050 and priests, and priestesses, and what happens then is 261 00:13:07,058 --> 00:13:10,075 we present a false gospel. 262 00:13:10,083 --> 00:13:13,000 Not to pick on him, but to pick on him. 263 00:13:13,004 --> 00:13:15,029 I'll give you an example from Tiger Woods. 264 00:13:15,033 --> 00:13:17,067 What happened in the Tiger Woods scenario 265 00:13:17,075 --> 00:13:20,017 is something that happens fairly frequently. 266 00:13:20,025 --> 00:13:24,000 First of all, someone doesn't repent, they get caught. 267 00:13:24,004 --> 00:13:26,088 The opposite of repenting is getting caught, 268 00:13:26,096 --> 00:13:28,075 and that is that you didn't come forward and say, 269 00:13:28,083 --> 00:13:31,042 "I've said or done a bad thing, or failed to say or do 270 00:13:31,050 --> 00:13:33,058 "a good thing, I got caught," which means 271 00:13:33,067 --> 00:13:36,062 "I wasn't gonna stop unless you made me." 272 00:13:36,067 --> 00:13:38,029 You get caught. 273 00:13:38,033 --> 00:13:42,008 And then you have to present worldly sorrow. 274 00:13:42,017 --> 00:13:44,021 You have to say, "I am really sorry." 275 00:13:44,029 --> 00:13:45,050 "I did a horrible thing. 276 00:13:45,054 --> 00:13:47,004 I feel really bad." 277 00:13:47,012 --> 00:13:49,033 Ideally, your PR rep will tell you, 278 00:13:49,038 --> 00:13:52,083 "You should probably cry, 'cause that will help. 279 00:13:52,092 --> 00:13:53,092 "It shows that you're really, really sad 280 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,050 about what you've done." 281 00:13:55,054 --> 00:13:59,029 And then we get basically a cultural equivalent 282 00:13:59,033 --> 00:14:01,038 of pagan Catholicism. 283 00:14:01,046 --> 00:14:03,000 Let me unpack all of this. 284 00:14:03,004 --> 00:14:05,012 I grew up as a Catholic boy, went to Catholic school, 285 00:14:05,017 --> 00:14:08,012 was an altar boy for some years. 286 00:14:08,017 --> 00:14:10,079 And the way it would work in Catholicism is you would go 287 00:14:10,083 --> 00:14:12,075 into the confessional with the priest. 288 00:14:12,083 --> 00:14:14,046 You would say, "Bless me, father, for I have sinned. 289 00:14:14,050 --> 00:14:17,050 It's been so long since my last confession." 290 00:14:17,054 --> 00:14:20,025 And then you would tell the priest what you did, 291 00:14:20,033 --> 00:14:23,000 and then the priest would say, "I declare you forgiven. 292 00:14:23,004 --> 00:14:24,033 "I forgive you. 293 00:14:24,042 --> 00:14:26,058 "Go say this many 'Hail Marys,' or 'Acts of Contrition,' 294 00:14:26,067 --> 00:14:29,029 "or 'Our Fathers', or go do these good deeds, 295 00:14:29,033 --> 00:14:31,012 "and then you'll make it up to God, 296 00:14:31,017 --> 00:14:35,000 and everything will be okay," something like that. 297 00:14:35,004 --> 00:14:38,050 And so what happens in culture is someone has worldly sorrow. 298 00:14:38,054 --> 00:14:41,054 They know they've done wrong, so they need to find someone 299 00:14:41,062 --> 00:14:44,067 who's in the cultural position of a priest. 300 00:14:44,071 --> 00:14:47,054 And just so you know, I don't believe in any of this. 301 00:14:47,062 --> 00:14:49,012 Jesus is my great high priest. 302 00:14:49,017 --> 00:14:50,050 A priest can't forgive me. 303 00:14:50,054 --> 00:14:54,025 The psalmist says, "Against you only, Lord God, have I sinned." 304 00:14:54,033 --> 00:14:57,088 So I don't go to a priest, I go to the great high priest, Jesus. 305 00:14:57,096 --> 00:14:59,092 But what happens in our culture then, 306 00:15:00,004 --> 00:15:03,000 we've gotta find someone to play that morally superior role, 307 00:15:03,008 --> 00:15:04,096 so we get Barbara Walters, or Larry King, 308 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,088 or Oprah, or Dr. Phil. 309 00:15:06,096 --> 00:15:11,050 We go get somebody to set up their stage for their show, 310 00:15:11,058 --> 00:15:13,083 their set, like a confessional. 311 00:15:13,092 --> 00:15:17,083 And the person who has sinned walks in looking very sad, and 312 00:15:17,088 --> 00:15:22,042 very scared, and, "I'm really sorry for what I've done." 313 00:15:22,050 --> 00:15:24,083 And then the person in the position of moral, 314 00:15:24,092 --> 00:15:27,050 spiritual authority, the priest of culture says, 315 00:15:27,054 --> 00:15:30,050 "Tell us about what you've done, and how you feel." 316 00:15:30,058 --> 00:15:32,042 And then you cry, and you say the things that your PR rep 317 00:15:32,050 --> 00:15:34,054 told you to say. 318 00:15:34,062 --> 00:15:36,067 But your sins are not yet forgiven, 319 00:15:36,075 --> 00:15:39,042 because you need to go to purgatory and pay back, 320 00:15:39,050 --> 00:15:41,033 and so you go to rehab. 321 00:15:41,042 --> 00:15:44,008 Rehab is our cultural version of purgatory. 322 00:15:44,017 --> 00:15:45,042 Everybody has to go to rehab. 323 00:15:45,050 --> 00:15:47,000 If you've done something bad, you've gotta go to rehab, 324 00:15:47,004 --> 00:15:49,088 drug rehab, sex rehab, alcohol rehab, 325 00:15:49,096 --> 00:15:52,062 "My dad didn't hug me" rehab, gambling rehab, 326 00:15:52,067 --> 00:15:53,088 whatever rehab it is. 327 00:15:53,096 --> 00:15:55,038 And you go to rehab for a while. 328 00:15:55,046 --> 00:15:58,058 It's like purgatory, you go there and you pay your dues. 329 00:15:58,067 --> 00:16:00,050 And then later you get out, and you go back, 330 00:16:00,054 --> 00:16:02,012 and you meet with the high priest or priestess. 331 00:16:02,017 --> 00:16:03,012 You say, "You know what? 332 00:16:03,017 --> 00:16:06,092 "I'm really, really sad, and I did a very bad thing, 333 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:10,029 "but I feel like I paid it off, and I went to rehab. 334 00:16:10,033 --> 00:16:11,092 "And now I've kind of been born-again. 335 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:13,092 "I'm a whole new person, and I'm going to give lots of money 336 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:18,000 "to women, children, or animals. 337 00:16:18,008 --> 00:16:24,012 Anything cute, I will give money to, to show that I have sorrow." 338 00:16:24,017 --> 00:16:27,054 And then all of this is told to the population, the public, 339 00:16:27,062 --> 00:16:30,033 the culture, and they decide whether or not you're forgiven. 340 00:16:30,038 --> 00:16:32,067 They're in the position of God. 341 00:16:32,071 --> 00:16:34,033 "Oh, you said you were sorry, you went to rehab, 342 00:16:34,038 --> 00:16:36,029 "you wrote a big check for people in need. 343 00:16:36,033 --> 00:16:37,071 "We forgive you. 344 00:16:37,079 --> 00:16:39,012 "You can golf again. 345 00:16:39,017 --> 00:16:42,021 Go and sin no more." 346 00:16:42,029 --> 00:16:44,021 That's worldly sorrow. 347 00:16:44,029 --> 00:16:46,054 The whole culture we live in is built on that, 348 00:16:46,062 --> 00:16:49,054 and people don't change, not at the heart level. 349 00:16:49,062 --> 00:16:52,033 There's no atonement, there's no penalty paid for sin. 350 00:16:52,042 --> 00:16:54,054 There's no Jesus, there's no Savior. 351 00:16:54,062 --> 00:16:58,017 There's no new life in Christ, there's none of that, 352 00:16:58,021 --> 00:17:01,021 just a bunch of counterfeits-- worldly sorrow. 353 00:17:01,029 --> 00:17:03,083 But I tell you that not just to pick on a man, 354 00:17:03,088 --> 00:17:06,017 but to say that we're all prone toward that, and 355 00:17:06,025 --> 00:17:11,067 our culture has this desire for something like a high priest, 356 00:17:11,075 --> 00:17:15,092 who forgives our sins, and gives us new life. 357 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:16,096 But without Jesus, 358 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:20,083 we end up with a lot of impotent counterfeits. 359 00:17:20,092 --> 00:17:24,067 True repentance is also not mere confession. 360 00:17:24,075 --> 00:17:26,062 Mere confession is very confusing, 361 00:17:26,067 --> 00:17:29,062 particularly for Christians, because it is when someone sins, 362 00:17:29,067 --> 00:17:32,004 and you confront, or rebuke them, 363 00:17:32,012 --> 00:17:33,092 call them to repentance as John does. 364 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:35,042 You say, "That was really wrong." 365 00:17:35,050 --> 00:17:36,050 And they say, "You know what? 366 00:17:36,054 --> 00:17:38,067 You're right, that was terrible." 367 00:17:38,071 --> 00:17:40,054 You say, "Oh good, I'm glad you recognized that. 368 00:17:40,062 --> 00:17:43,000 Let me hug you, and we're all better now." 369 00:17:43,008 --> 00:17:45,000 And then they do it again. 370 00:17:45,004 --> 00:17:46,000 You say, "I thought you were sorry." 371 00:17:46,008 --> 00:17:47,000 "Oh, I was. 372 00:17:47,008 --> 00:17:48,083 "I'm sorry again, and I'll be sorry next week, 373 00:17:48,092 --> 00:17:50,033 "and the week after that. 374 00:17:50,042 --> 00:17:52,004 "I'm sorry a lot. 375 00:17:52,012 --> 00:17:54,000 "And every time I do it, at least I'm not a hypocrite, 376 00:17:54,008 --> 00:17:57,067 "I'm authentic, I'm honest, I'm real, I'm true. 377 00:17:57,075 --> 00:17:59,046 "And I'll just tell ya how bad I am, 378 00:17:59,050 --> 00:18:02,000 and I'm gonna keep being bad." 379 00:18:02,008 --> 00:18:04,033 Some of you are dating that person. 380 00:18:04,038 --> 00:18:07,050 Run, run, run, run Forrest run, 381 00:18:07,058 --> 00:18:10,067 run for your life. 382 00:18:10,071 --> 00:18:12,008 And they confuse you, 'cause you'll say, 383 00:18:12,017 --> 00:18:13,079 "Hey, you shouldn't have said or done that." 384 00:18:13,083 --> 00:18:16,017 "You're right, that was wrong," and they keep doing it. 385 00:18:16,025 --> 00:18:18,021 Mere confession is an acknowledgment of sin, 386 00:18:18,029 --> 00:18:21,042 without a repentance of sin. 387 00:18:21,050 --> 00:18:25,000 Additionally, real repentance is not blame shifting, 388 00:18:25,008 --> 00:18:28,046 that is, "Yeah, something bad happened, but it's their fault." 389 00:18:28,050 --> 00:18:30,050 This goes all the way back to the garden. 390 00:18:30,054 --> 00:18:32,083 Adam sins, says, "God, you made a woman. 391 00:18:32,088 --> 00:18:33,092 "She's defective. 392 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:37,004 The two of you need to sort this out." 393 00:18:37,012 --> 00:18:39,083 Eve says, "Oh, don't look at me, the devil made me do it." 394 00:18:39,092 --> 00:18:43,004 She was charismatic. 395 00:18:43,012 --> 00:18:44,050 396 00:18:44,054 --> 00:18:47,079 And the truth is that they both were morally responsible 397 00:18:47,083 --> 00:18:49,075 for their own transgression. 398 00:18:49,083 --> 00:18:50,083 And we can do this. 399 00:18:50,092 --> 00:18:53,067 "Yes, I lost my temper, but they made me very angry." 400 00:18:53,071 --> 00:18:55,042 Oh well, it's obviously their fault. 401 00:18:55,050 --> 00:18:57,050 "Yes, I stole from my boss, but after all, 402 00:18:57,054 --> 00:18:59,033 they weren't paying me enough." 403 00:18:59,038 --> 00:19:02,012 "I did cheat on my spouse, but they weren't meeting my needs." 404 00:19:02,017 --> 00:19:06,050 Oh, you poor victim. 405 00:19:06,058 --> 00:19:08,033 Blame someone else. 406 00:19:08,042 --> 00:19:11,079 Real repentance is also not minimizing. 407 00:19:11,083 --> 00:19:14,025 What happens is you sin, someone calls you to repent, 408 00:19:14,033 --> 00:19:16,017 and the first thing you do is you find someone 409 00:19:16,025 --> 00:19:18,067 who's done something worse. 410 00:19:18,075 --> 00:19:20,062 "At least I didn't kill someone." 411 00:19:20,067 --> 00:19:22,067 Oh, duckie for you, we'll put a gold star on your 412 00:19:22,075 --> 00:19:27,083 "No Murder" chart, another whole day. 413 00:19:27,088 --> 00:19:29,083 You find someone worse than you. 414 00:19:29,092 --> 00:19:31,000 "You're a terrible spouse." 415 00:19:31,004 --> 00:19:33,033 "Well, at least you're not married to so and so." 416 00:19:33,042 --> 00:19:35,092 And if all else fails, hit the Hitler button, 417 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:38,000 that's what you do. 418 00:19:38,008 --> 00:19:39,071 Just hit the Hitler button, which is, 419 00:19:39,079 --> 00:19:41,054 "At least I'm not a Nazi." 420 00:19:41,062 --> 00:19:44,017 Oh, that's true. 421 00:19:44,025 --> 00:19:45,092 And you put yourself next to Hitler, and you're like, 422 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:47,004 "See, I look pretty good." 423 00:19:47,012 --> 00:19:50,079 Yeah, compared to Hitler, everyone does. 424 00:19:50,083 --> 00:19:52,096 That's not really moral high ground, 425 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:54,083 but that's what people do. 426 00:19:54,092 --> 00:19:55,083 It's minimizing. 427 00:19:55,092 --> 00:19:56,096 "Oh, it's not a big deal. 428 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,025 "You're freaking out. You're overreacting. 429 00:19:58,033 --> 00:20:01,042 Why do you gotta get so emotional?" 430 00:20:01,050 --> 00:20:06,000 Additionally, real repentance is not excuse making. 431 00:20:06,004 --> 00:20:10,050 "Yeah, I did it, but I had a rough upbringing. 432 00:20:10,054 --> 00:20:13,050 "You know, I didn't get a good education. 433 00:20:13,054 --> 00:20:15,058 "My dad didn't hug me it. 434 00:20:15,067 --> 00:20:17,038 "I'm genetically predisposed. 435 00:20:17,046 --> 00:20:19,071 "My personality type is J-E-R-K. 436 00:20:19,079 --> 00:20:23,000 "You know there's just-- P-E-R-V, you know, 437 00:20:23,004 --> 00:20:30,075 my personality type is that way." 438 00:20:30,083 --> 00:20:35,046 No, real repentance is a five-fold process, 439 00:20:35,050 --> 00:20:37,067 and I've shared this before. 440 00:20:37,071 --> 00:20:40,046 It starts with conviction, that is a work of God. 441 00:20:40,050 --> 00:20:44,096 Jesus says that the Holy Spirit would come to convict us of sin. 442 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:46,083 Works through the conscience, the Scriptures, 443 00:20:46,092 --> 00:20:49,088 works through good friends, and Bible teaching. 444 00:20:49,096 --> 00:20:55,050 And conviction is where you feel it, you know it, you blew it. 445 00:20:55,054 --> 00:20:57,050 Conviction, that comes from God. 446 00:20:57,058 --> 00:21:00,079 Now at this point, we can grieve, quench, or resist, 447 00:21:00,083 --> 00:21:03,071 the Bible says, the Holy Spirit. 448 00:21:03,079 --> 00:21:06,021 Or we can agree with God. 449 00:21:06,029 --> 00:21:08,079 Here it says that they declared God just, 450 00:21:08,083 --> 00:21:11,017 that's agreeing with God. 451 00:21:11,021 --> 00:21:12,083 That's what they're doing. 452 00:21:12,088 --> 00:21:15,021 "You're right, I'm wrong." 453 00:21:15,029 --> 00:21:17,021 That moves on to confession. 454 00:21:17,029 --> 00:21:21,083 Confession is declaring, talking about, owning it. 455 00:21:21,088 --> 00:21:24,050 "You're right, God, I'm wrong. 456 00:21:24,054 --> 00:21:25,067 "The Bible says something, 457 00:21:25,071 --> 00:21:30,046 and I am in violation of what you say." 458 00:21:30,050 --> 00:21:33,017 Confession is talking to God about your sin. 459 00:21:33,025 --> 00:21:35,021 Confession is talking to others about your sin, 460 00:21:35,029 --> 00:21:38,096 and some of you haven't repented--your family, friends, 461 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,046 co-workers, neighbors, don't even know, your spouse, 462 00:21:42,050 --> 00:21:45,029 what you've done, or are doing. 463 00:21:45,033 --> 00:21:46,058 You've not repented. 464 00:21:46,067 --> 00:21:47,096 You're just waiting to get caught, 465 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,021 and if you never get caught, 466 00:21:49,029 --> 00:21:51,033 you're never going to talk about it. 467 00:21:51,042 --> 00:21:54,042 This is my exhortation and admonition to you, 468 00:21:54,050 --> 00:21:55,092 to confess, to talk about it. 469 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,004 To say, "You know what? 470 00:21:57,012 --> 00:21:58,033 "There's some stuff I need to tell you. 471 00:21:58,042 --> 00:21:59,092 "We need to have that conversation. 472 00:22:00,004 --> 00:22:03,046 Here's who I am, here's what I've done." 473 00:22:03,050 --> 00:22:06,012 Confession is talking about sin with God, 474 00:22:06,017 --> 00:22:09,083 whom you've sinned against, and talking with people about sin, 475 00:22:09,088 --> 00:22:11,021 whom you've sinned against. 476 00:22:11,029 --> 00:22:13,000 That's why the Bible says in 1 John 1:9, 477 00:22:13,008 --> 00:22:15,079 "if we confess our sin," gotta talk about it. 478 00:22:15,083 --> 00:22:18,046 Conviction, confession, confession is responding. 479 00:22:18,050 --> 00:22:19,083 Third is repentance. 480 00:22:19,092 --> 00:22:24,004 Repentance is not managing, or minimizing sin. 481 00:22:24,012 --> 00:22:26,067 "I used to do it every week, now I do it once a month, 482 00:22:26,075 --> 00:22:28,096 "or once every 6 months, or once a year. 483 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,038 "I used to, you know, do it to this degree, 484 00:22:31,046 --> 00:22:33,033 "and I've ratcheted it back a little bit. 485 00:22:33,042 --> 00:22:35,092 "I'm trying to manage, or I'm trying to minimize, 486 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,054 or maintain my sin." 487 00:22:37,062 --> 00:22:38,062 That's not it. 488 00:22:38,067 --> 00:22:40,062 Our sin is worse than we think. 489 00:22:40,067 --> 00:22:45,050 Our sin is so bad that God, Jesus, had to die for it. 490 00:22:45,058 --> 00:22:49,033 And if it's important enough for Jesus to die for, 491 00:22:49,038 --> 00:22:52,000 we need to put it to death. 492 00:22:52,008 --> 00:22:55,079 We need to put it to death. 493 00:22:55,083 --> 00:23:01,029 If Jesus died for that sin, then that sin must die. 494 00:23:01,033 --> 00:23:04,083 Can't just wound it, you have to kill it. 495 00:23:04,092 --> 00:23:09,017 Repentance is the putting to death of sin, 496 00:23:09,021 --> 00:23:12,054 putting it to death, not just feeling bad. 497 00:23:12,062 --> 00:23:13,096 Not just saying you're sorry. 498 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,083 Not just trying harder. 499 00:23:16,092 --> 00:23:20,029 Killing it, because it killed Jesus. 500 00:23:20,033 --> 00:23:23,088 This leads to step number four, and by the way, 501 00:23:23,096 --> 00:23:27,088 that was John's whole ministry: repent, repent, repent. 502 00:23:27,096 --> 00:23:29,033 That's what he's getting at. 503 00:23:29,042 --> 00:23:31,062 Step number four then is restitution, 504 00:23:31,067 --> 00:23:34,046 and this is not penance, where you pay God back, 505 00:23:34,050 --> 00:23:37,050 this is just trying to make it right. 506 00:23:37,058 --> 00:23:41,025 If you've stolen, you should pay it back. 507 00:23:41,033 --> 00:23:45,038 If you've lied about someone and damaged their reputation, 508 00:23:45,046 --> 00:23:48,000 you need to go to those people you've lied to and say, 509 00:23:48,004 --> 00:23:50,038 "That wasn't true. 510 00:23:50,046 --> 00:23:54,038 I sinned and I lied." 511 00:23:54,046 --> 00:23:56,004 See, because some of you have done 512 00:23:56,012 --> 00:23:59,083 great, horrific damage to other people, 513 00:23:59,092 --> 00:24:01,067 and you can tell God, "I'm sorry." 514 00:24:01,071 --> 00:24:02,071 And you can tell them, "I'm sorry," 515 00:24:02,079 --> 00:24:05,008 but if you don't try and fix it, it like shooting someone 516 00:24:05,017 --> 00:24:07,017 and driving away, rather than giving them a ride 517 00:24:07,021 --> 00:24:09,050 to the hospital. 518 00:24:09,054 --> 00:24:10,075 "Sorry, that hurts. 519 00:24:10,083 --> 00:24:13,025 Good luck with that, good-bye." 520 00:24:13,033 --> 00:24:15,092 No, real repentance is: "And I need to try and make 521 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:19,012 "this right in as much as by God's grace I'm able, 522 00:24:19,017 --> 00:24:21,083 "'cause if I was part of your wounding, 523 00:24:21,092 --> 00:24:26,038 I need to be part of your healing, if you will let me." 524 00:24:26,046 --> 00:24:30,062 Conviction, confession, repentance, restitution. 525 00:24:30,067 --> 00:24:33,042 Step number five, reconciliation. 526 00:24:33,050 --> 00:24:36,050 This is where God and people are reconciled, 527 00:24:36,054 --> 00:24:38,067 and people and people are reconciled, 528 00:24:38,071 --> 00:24:42,050 that Jesus takes away sin, that reconciliation may happen. 529 00:24:42,054 --> 00:24:44,054 Jesus makes this possible through his death, 530 00:24:44,062 --> 00:24:46,025 burial, resurrection. 531 00:24:46,033 --> 00:24:50,050 That's the means for reconciliation. 532 00:24:50,054 --> 00:24:54,092 Let me say this: forgiveness takes one person. 533 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,033 Repentance takes one person. 534 00:24:57,042 --> 00:24:59,067 Reconciliation takes two. 535 00:24:59,071 --> 00:25:04,017 If you have sinned, or when you sin, 'cause we're all sinning, 536 00:25:04,025 --> 00:25:07,096 you go to the person you've sinned against and you repent. 537 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,050 "I have sinned. 538 00:25:09,058 --> 00:25:11,075 "You may have not even known about it, 539 00:25:11,083 --> 00:25:14,050 "but let me come clean and be honest. 540 00:25:14,054 --> 00:25:17,033 "Let me tell you who I am, and what I've done, 541 00:25:17,038 --> 00:25:19,083 "or what I've failed to do. 542 00:25:19,092 --> 00:25:23,012 "And I'm repenting, I'm killing that. 543 00:25:23,017 --> 00:25:27,083 It's gonna stop by the grace of God." 544 00:25:27,088 --> 00:25:30,012 Takes one person to repent. 545 00:25:30,017 --> 00:25:32,088 What do you have to repent of? 546 00:25:32,096 --> 00:25:35,017 Who do you need to talk to? 547 00:25:35,025 --> 00:25:38,079 What needs to be made known? 548 00:25:38,083 --> 00:25:41,033 It takes one person to forgive. 549 00:25:41,038 --> 00:25:46,021 "I forgive you for what you've done, or failed to do." 550 00:25:46,029 --> 00:25:48,017 Some of you would say, "I cannot forgive them, 551 00:25:48,025 --> 00:25:50,017 because they have not repented." 552 00:25:50,021 --> 00:25:52,071 You must forgive them either way, 553 00:25:52,079 --> 00:25:55,008 because it frees you of bitterness. 554 00:25:55,017 --> 00:25:57,092 It opens the door of reconciliation. 555 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,083 You are willing to meet them at the threshold, 556 00:26:00,088 --> 00:26:05,092 and they must turn from sin, and walk toward you. 557 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:10,021 Additionally, it leaves them to God. 558 00:26:10,029 --> 00:26:11,067 "God, I have forgiven them. 559 00:26:11,075 --> 00:26:13,083 "They are now in your hands. 560 00:26:13,092 --> 00:26:16,058 "My prayer is that they would repent, and if not, 561 00:26:16,067 --> 00:26:18,083 justice will come from you." 562 00:26:18,092 --> 00:26:21,033 Either justice comes from the cross of Jesus, 563 00:26:21,042 --> 00:26:28,038 or justice comes in hell, either way, justice comes. 564 00:26:28,046 --> 00:26:31,092 Who do you need to forgive? 565 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,021 What have they done? 566 00:26:34,029 --> 00:26:37,000 Some of you would say, "I cannot forgive." 567 00:26:37,004 --> 00:26:40,067 You must. You must. 568 00:26:40,075 --> 00:26:43,017 And I feel prompted by the Holy Spirit. 569 00:26:43,025 --> 00:26:46,042 I didn't intend to say this, and I didn't say this all day. 570 00:26:46,050 --> 00:26:49,017 I feel as if some of you right now 571 00:26:49,025 --> 00:26:53,079 in your mind are saying this--and if this is you, 572 00:26:53,083 --> 00:26:58,012 this is a gift to you from the Holy Spirit. 573 00:26:58,017 --> 00:27:02,029 "I cannot forgive myself." 574 00:27:02,033 --> 00:27:05,071 And let me tell you that, as spiritual as that sounds, 575 00:27:05,079 --> 00:27:11,004 it's blasphemy, because if the God of the Bible forgives you, 576 00:27:11,012 --> 00:27:13,071 and you will not forgive yourself, 577 00:27:13,079 --> 00:27:18,046 you are saying that you are above the God of the Bible. 578 00:27:18,050 --> 00:27:21,071 What you're saying is when Jesus declared on the cross, 579 00:27:21,079 --> 00:27:28,062 "Father, forgive them," you are saying, 580 00:27:28,067 --> 00:27:33,008 "Even if the Father forgives me, I do not forgive myself." 581 00:27:33,017 --> 00:27:40,083 And so you are in effect saying, "I am a superior God than he." 582 00:27:40,092 --> 00:27:44,033 You need to repent of sin. 583 00:27:44,042 --> 00:27:47,046 You need to forgive those who've sinned against you, 584 00:27:47,050 --> 00:27:51,092 and you need not say that you cannot forgive yourself, 585 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,067 because it's blasphemy. 586 00:27:54,071 --> 00:28:00,017 If Jesus forgives you, there is no higher God, 587 00:28:00,021 --> 00:28:04,017 and you and I have no right to place ourselves above Jesus, 588 00:28:04,021 --> 00:28:08,088 and to withhold from ourselves forgiveness that he guarantees 589 00:28:08,096 --> 00:28:13,021 through his death and resurrection. 590 00:28:13,029 --> 00:28:18,012 This is all very serious business. 591 00:28:18,017 --> 00:28:20,062 And Jesus declares that John is great, 592 00:28:20,067 --> 00:28:23,071 because he calls people to repentance. 593 00:28:23,079 --> 00:28:26,038 He cut through all of the cultural clutter, 594 00:28:26,046 --> 00:28:29,029 and noise, and nonsense. 595 00:28:29,033 --> 00:28:33,033 He does not settle for religious repentance, pagan repentance, 596 00:28:33,038 --> 00:28:38,038 worldly sorrow, mere confession, blame shifting, minimizing, 597 00:28:38,046 --> 00:28:44,071 excuse making, mere conviction, or mere confession. 598 00:28:44,079 --> 00:28:47,088 He lays an ax at the root of the problem, 599 00:28:47,096 --> 00:28:52,012 and he goes after sin with a furious courage, 600 00:28:52,017 --> 00:28:56,067 and he calls people to repent of sin. 601 00:28:56,071 --> 00:29:02,017 And God would call us all to repent of sin, 602 00:29:02,021 --> 00:29:04,004 because he loves us. 603 00:29:04,012 --> 00:29:05,096 And sin leads to death, 604 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:10,092 and repentance is a gift to be enjoyed. 605 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:14,017 That is the greatness of John. 606 00:29:14,025 --> 00:29:18,083 And again, some in this account of Luke, they receive it, 607 00:29:18,092 --> 00:29:22,008 and they go down to the river, and they say publicly with their 608 00:29:22,017 --> 00:29:27,017 actions, "I'm a sinner, and I'm repenting." 609 00:29:27,021 --> 00:29:31,033 And others reject, and they become religious, 610 00:29:31,042 --> 00:29:35,088 and they fight, and they argue, and they defend themselves 611 00:29:35,096 --> 00:29:38,067 to their own shame and folly. 612 00:29:38,075 --> 00:29:41,067 And you and I are given this divine moment of opportunity 613 00:29:41,071 --> 00:29:45,083 to make that decision for ourselves. 614 00:29:45,092 --> 00:29:49,083 Will we declare God to be just, by ourselves declaring ourselves 615 00:29:49,092 --> 00:29:52,079 to be unjust, and in need of his justice 616 00:29:52,083 --> 00:29:55,067 through the cross of Jesus? 617 00:29:55,075 --> 00:30:00,004 You know why John had such strong reaction now, don't you? 618 00:30:00,012 --> 00:30:03,079 He was loved and hated, but he could not be ignored. 619 00:30:03,083 --> 00:30:05,071 That's John. 620 00:30:05,079 --> 00:30:08,067 Jesus goes on to say that John was great 621 00:30:08,075 --> 00:30:12,012 because he endured impossible people. 622 00:30:12,017 --> 00:30:17,042 Luke 7:31-32, Jesus says, "To what then shall I compare 623 00:30:17,050 --> 00:30:19,050 "the people of this generation, and what are they like? 624 00:30:19,054 --> 00:30:21,062 "They are like children sitting in the marketplace 625 00:30:21,067 --> 00:30:24,067 "and calling to one another, 'We played the flute for you, 626 00:30:24,071 --> 00:30:26,033 "'and you did not dance; 627 00:30:26,042 --> 00:30:28,092 we sang a dirge, and you did not weep.'" 628 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:32,017 Jesus here is offending people. 629 00:30:32,025 --> 00:30:35,021 See, for some of you the worst sin of all is offending someone. 630 00:30:35,029 --> 00:30:38,033 Jesus offended people, and he did so in love. 631 00:30:38,042 --> 00:30:41,046 He did so to point out their sin and folly. 632 00:30:41,050 --> 00:30:46,021 One commentator rightly calls this the "parable of the brats," 633 00:30:46,029 --> 00:30:49,012 which I think is a pretty cool band name. 634 00:30:49,017 --> 00:30:51,042 That would be an awesome Christian band. 635 00:30:51,050 --> 00:30:53,029 "We are the parable of the brats." 636 00:30:53,033 --> 00:30:54,096 And the "parable of the brats" is this: 637 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,079 if any of you have, or have seen small children, 638 00:30:58,083 --> 00:31:01,012 they tend to look at big events in life, 639 00:31:01,017 --> 00:31:03,017 and then mimic them, correct? 640 00:31:03,021 --> 00:31:04,058 And in that day, the two big events were 641 00:31:04,067 --> 00:31:06,062 funerals and weddings. 642 00:31:06,067 --> 00:31:09,021 Funerals are dark, and weddings are light. 643 00:31:09,029 --> 00:31:13,067 And funerals are grieving, and weddings are celebrating. 644 00:31:13,075 --> 00:31:16,075 And what would happen in a funeral is everyone would 645 00:31:16,083 --> 00:31:19,012 get dressed in black, and the processional would leave town, 646 00:31:19,017 --> 00:31:21,083 out to the cemetery, and the wailers would be wailing, 647 00:31:21,092 --> 00:31:23,000 and the mourners would be mourning, 648 00:31:23,008 --> 00:31:25,079 and the flute players would be playing. 649 00:31:25,083 --> 00:31:27,042 And in a wedding, everyone would stay in town, 650 00:31:27,050 --> 00:31:29,033 and there was oftentimes a multi-day feast, 651 00:31:29,042 --> 00:31:32,008 and the bride would come out in all glory, dressed in white, 652 00:31:32,017 --> 00:31:33,067 and there'd be dancing, and singing, 653 00:31:33,071 --> 00:31:35,096 and celebration, and song. 654 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,038 And so the little kids would get to together, 655 00:31:37,046 --> 00:31:42,050 and they would either play funeral or wedding. 656 00:31:42,058 --> 00:31:48,008 So the emo kids, the punk rock kids, they would play funeral. 657 00:31:48,017 --> 00:31:50,025 And all the pop kids, and the hip-hop kids, 658 00:31:50,033 --> 00:31:52,033 they'd all play wedding. 659 00:31:52,042 --> 00:31:53,088 Do you have kids? 660 00:31:53,096 --> 00:31:55,054 Do they do this to this day? 661 00:31:55,062 --> 00:31:56,088 They see a big event, and they go home, 662 00:31:56,096 --> 00:31:58,054 and then try and reenact it? 663 00:31:58,062 --> 00:32:01,033 This happens right? 664 00:32:01,038 --> 00:32:05,079 Yet there were always a group of kids who wanted to play funeral, 665 00:32:05,083 --> 00:32:08,017 and a group of kids who wanted to play wedding, 666 00:32:08,025 --> 00:32:10,067 and a group of kids who wouldn't play anything, 667 00:32:10,071 --> 00:32:13,054 those were the religious kids. 668 00:32:13,062 --> 00:32:16,004 They'd say, "We don't want to play funeral, it's too sad. 669 00:32:16,012 --> 00:32:18,071 We don't want to play wedding, it's too happy." 670 00:32:18,079 --> 00:32:20,000 What do you want to play? 671 00:32:20,008 --> 00:32:22,004 "I want to play miserable critic," 672 00:32:22,012 --> 00:32:25,054 and that was their game. 673 00:32:25,062 --> 00:32:29,000 And they would never join in and participate. 674 00:32:29,008 --> 00:32:31,017 Some people are like this, Jesus says, 675 00:32:31,021 --> 00:32:32,038 even when it comes to church. 676 00:32:32,046 --> 00:32:34,004 "That one's too big, that one's too small. 677 00:32:34,012 --> 00:32:36,096 "That one's too serious, that one's too irreverent. 678 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,042 "That one's too organized. 679 00:32:38,050 --> 00:32:39,079 "That one's too disorganized. 680 00:32:39,083 --> 00:32:40,079 "That one's too formal. 681 00:32:40,083 --> 00:32:43,000 That one's too casual." 682 00:32:43,008 --> 00:32:45,050 Any of you have a kid like that, a really picky eater, 683 00:32:45,054 --> 00:32:47,021 for example? 684 00:32:47,029 --> 00:32:48,067 Do you want a sandwich? "No." 685 00:32:48,071 --> 00:32:50,033 How about eggs? "No." 686 00:32:50,042 --> 00:32:51,038 Cereal? "No." 687 00:32:51,046 --> 00:32:52,046 Pizza? "No." 688 00:32:52,050 --> 00:32:54,004 A spanking? 689 00:32:54,012 --> 00:32:55,067 'cause we have lots of those. 690 00:32:55,075 --> 00:32:59,050 Right you just--these are the kids it doesn't matter 691 00:32:59,058 --> 00:33:01,083 what you propose: "No." 692 00:33:01,092 --> 00:33:03,096 They're just always negative. 693 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,075 Some of you are like that, you're always negative. 694 00:33:06,083 --> 00:33:09,008 You find something wrong with everyone, and everything, 695 00:33:09,017 --> 00:33:12,029 and you just refuse--you just cross your arms, 696 00:33:12,033 --> 00:33:13,067 "I'm not becoming a member. 697 00:33:13,075 --> 00:33:14,096 "I'm not joining a community group. 698 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:16,046 "I'm not getting involved. 699 00:33:16,050 --> 00:33:19,021 I have lots of reasons that I'm unhappy." 700 00:33:19,029 --> 00:33:20,092 You're always unhappy. 701 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,050 You're Puddleglum. 702 00:33:22,054 --> 00:33:28,017 You're Eeyore, you just are. 703 00:33:28,021 --> 00:33:32,058 And see, John endured these people in his ministry, 704 00:33:32,067 --> 00:33:34,067 and ministry are often-- ministry is, rather, 705 00:33:34,075 --> 00:33:39,050 often consumed with these kind of negative people. 706 00:33:39,054 --> 00:33:40,050 It's always something. 707 00:33:40,058 --> 00:33:42,008 Are you negative? 708 00:33:42,017 --> 00:33:45,058 Are you always against someone, always against something? 709 00:33:45,067 --> 00:33:47,088 Do you always have a reason why you're not gonna get involved 710 00:33:47,096 --> 00:33:50,050 with God's people, why you're not gonna be in community, 711 00:33:50,058 --> 00:33:53,067 actively involved on mission, as the church? 712 00:33:53,071 --> 00:33:55,046 Like, "There's issues." 713 00:33:55,050 --> 00:33:59,042 Yeah, with you, you're right, there are. 714 00:33:59,050 --> 00:34:02,083 And John was great because he endured this. 715 00:34:02,092 --> 00:34:06,017 Number three, John was great because he suffered critics. 716 00:34:06,025 --> 00:34:08,029 He had lots of critics. 717 00:34:08,033 --> 00:34:11,054 Here's what Jesus says, Luke 7:33-35, 718 00:34:11,062 --> 00:34:13,058 "For John the Baptist has come eating no bread 719 00:34:13,067 --> 00:34:18,021 and drinking no wine, and you say, 'He has a demon.'" 720 00:34:18,029 --> 00:34:20,054 Some blogger threw that out there. 721 00:34:20,062 --> 00:34:23,038 "The Son of Man has come eating and drinking, and you say, 722 00:34:23,046 --> 00:34:25,067 "'Look at him! 723 00:34:25,071 --> 00:34:27,050 "'A glutton and a drunkard, 724 00:34:27,054 --> 00:34:30,067 "'a friend of tax collectors and sinners!' 725 00:34:30,075 --> 00:34:33,000 Yet wisdom is justified by all her children." 726 00:34:33,004 --> 00:34:35,017 Here's what happens, those who are critics, 727 00:34:35,021 --> 00:34:39,062 they criticize John and Jesus, for exactly opposite reasons. 728 00:34:39,067 --> 00:34:43,017 This is Jesus saying, "Critics are coo-coo for cocoa puffs. 729 00:34:43,021 --> 00:34:45,083 They don't make any sense." 730 00:34:45,088 --> 00:34:48,062 So they look at John, and John is--I'll call him 731 00:34:48,067 --> 00:34:51,050 a hippy Baptist, okay? 732 00:34:51,058 --> 00:34:53,067 Because he's gluten-free and alcohol-free, 733 00:34:53,071 --> 00:34:55,062 so we'll call John a hippy Baptist. 734 00:34:55,067 --> 00:34:56,067 That's what Jesus says. 735 00:34:56,075 --> 00:34:59,050 He doesn't eat bread, and he doesn't drink wine. 736 00:34:59,054 --> 00:35:02,083 Gluten-free, hippy Baptist, okay? 737 00:35:02,088 --> 00:35:03,096 And they look at John, and they say, 738 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,096 "We don't like John because he's gluten-free, and alcohol free." 739 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:09,029 Then they look at Jesus, and they say, 740 00:35:09,033 --> 00:35:10,038 "Well, what do you think of Jesus?" 741 00:35:10,046 --> 00:35:11,038 "We don't like him either." 742 00:35:11,046 --> 00:35:12,004 Why? 743 00:35:12,012 --> 00:35:14,025 "'Cause he eats bread and drinks wine." 744 00:35:14,033 --> 00:35:18,062 What? 745 00:35:18,067 --> 00:35:21,017 "Yeah, and today's too hot, and it's too cold. 746 00:35:21,021 --> 00:35:26,042 And you're too tall, and you're too short." 747 00:35:26,050 --> 00:35:28,021 Okay? 748 00:35:28,029 --> 00:35:31,038 This is the heart of a critic. 749 00:35:31,046 --> 00:35:33,067 They're impossible. 750 00:35:33,075 --> 00:35:36,075 They're incorrigible. 751 00:35:36,083 --> 00:35:38,067 They're insane. 752 00:35:38,075 --> 00:35:40,088 They don't make any sense. 753 00:35:40,096 --> 00:35:44,033 "We don't like John, and we don't like Jesus." 754 00:35:44,042 --> 00:35:45,083 Why? 755 00:35:45,088 --> 00:35:47,067 "One eats bread, one doesn't. 756 00:35:47,075 --> 00:35:48,092 "One drinks wine, one doesn't. 757 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,017 We don't like either of them." 758 00:35:52,021 --> 00:35:54,025 And this is how critics are. 759 00:35:54,033 --> 00:35:56,079 A critic is someone who takes upon themselves the disposition 760 00:35:56,083 --> 00:36:00,017 of defining themselves by who or what they're against. 761 00:36:00,025 --> 00:36:01,033 That's it. 762 00:36:01,038 --> 00:36:03,050 All you know is who or what they're against, 763 00:36:03,054 --> 00:36:07,008 not who or what they are for. 764 00:36:07,017 --> 00:36:08,088 And they're not pointing out real sin, 765 00:36:08,096 --> 00:36:13,083 critics will sometimes make wildly outlandish claims. 766 00:36:13,088 --> 00:36:17,017 And be careful, Mars Hill, be careful. 767 00:36:17,021 --> 00:36:22,058 Number one, that we are not a church known as the critics. 768 00:36:22,067 --> 00:36:24,083 See, there is a difference between calling someone 769 00:36:24,088 --> 00:36:28,046 to repentance, which is what John did nobly, 770 00:36:28,050 --> 00:36:33,071 and falsely accusing people of things that are not true. 771 00:36:33,079 --> 00:36:39,000 See, here with John, they say, "He has a demon." 772 00:36:39,008 --> 00:36:43,075 That's a horrible false allegation. 773 00:36:43,083 --> 00:36:45,008 Some of you would say, 774 00:36:45,017 --> 00:36:47,071 "Yeah, but the truth is always in the middle. 775 00:36:47,079 --> 00:36:49,050 "'Cause someone says really bad things about someone, 776 00:36:49,054 --> 00:36:50,067 "someone says really good things. 777 00:36:50,075 --> 00:36:52,004 The truth is always in the middle." 778 00:36:52,012 --> 00:36:53,096 It's not always in the middle. 779 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,012 The critics say John is demon possessed. 780 00:36:56,017 --> 00:36:58,058 Jesus says he's the greatest man who's ever lived. 781 00:36:58,067 --> 00:37:01,004 The truth is not somewhere in the middle. 782 00:37:01,012 --> 00:37:02,071 The truth is John is a godly man, 783 00:37:02,079 --> 00:37:07,025 not perfect, but by the grace of God, a remarkable man, 784 00:37:07,033 --> 00:37:10,050 a great man. 785 00:37:10,058 --> 00:37:13,088 You and I, as Mars Hill Church, have this big opportunity, 786 00:37:13,096 --> 00:37:16,054 because of the voice and platform that God has given us, 787 00:37:16,062 --> 00:37:18,079 and this begins with me, to yeah, 788 00:37:18,083 --> 00:37:20,050 to do a bit of what John did, and to call people, 789 00:37:20,054 --> 00:37:24,050 beginning with ourselves, to repentance of sin. 790 00:37:24,054 --> 00:37:29,021 But not to falsely accuse people of things that are not true, 791 00:37:29,029 --> 00:37:31,050 not to have conjecture, and speculation, 792 00:37:31,058 --> 00:37:34,008 and busybodying, and gossiping. 793 00:37:34,017 --> 00:37:36,017 Not taking bits and pieces of information, 794 00:37:36,025 --> 00:37:39,033 and building a case to attack someone without checking 795 00:37:39,038 --> 00:37:42,062 the other side of the story to confirm it. 796 00:37:42,067 --> 00:37:46,050 See, in that day, had some people run with this lie, 797 00:37:46,054 --> 00:37:48,083 which is what it was of John, that he was demon possessed, 798 00:37:48,088 --> 00:37:50,029 they would have started blogging, Facebooking, 799 00:37:50,033 --> 00:37:51,042 Twittering. 800 00:37:51,050 --> 00:37:52,079 There would have been a media campaign. 801 00:37:52,083 --> 00:37:54,004 The whole thing would have blown up, 802 00:37:54,012 --> 00:37:56,046 and they should have went and checked with Jesus, and said, 803 00:37:56,050 --> 00:37:58,088 "Okay Jesus, we've heard these things about John." 804 00:37:58,096 --> 00:38:00,071 Jesus says, "Greatest man who's ever lived." 805 00:38:00,079 --> 00:38:04,000 "Wow, that's a really different take on John. 806 00:38:04,004 --> 00:38:07,017 "Glad we didn't run with the smear campaign. 807 00:38:07,021 --> 00:38:09,067 Glad we double-checked the facts." 808 00:38:09,075 --> 00:38:11,046 Don't believe everything you hear. 809 00:38:11,050 --> 00:38:12,096 Don't believe everything you read. 810 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:17,033 Don't believe everything you think. 811 00:38:17,042 --> 00:38:19,012 Check the facts. 812 00:38:19,017 --> 00:38:21,000 And if there really is sin or heresy, 813 00:38:21,008 --> 00:38:23,071 calling to repentance is a good thing. 814 00:38:23,079 --> 00:38:26,096 But if there's not, don't be a liar, 815 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,038 and don't bear false witness. 816 00:38:29,046 --> 00:38:32,050 We have commandments against these sorts of things. 817 00:38:32,058 --> 00:38:37,083 It's a big deal, and in the age of media, if it is true, 818 00:38:37,088 --> 00:38:40,033 as Jesus said, that we will be held accountable for every word 819 00:38:40,038 --> 00:38:45,075 that we utter, we're all in grave danger. 820 00:38:45,083 --> 00:38:48,083 We don't want to falsely accuse people in general, 821 00:38:48,088 --> 00:38:51,025 and spiritual leaders in particular. 822 00:38:51,033 --> 00:38:53,067 And that's exactly what's happening with John. 823 00:38:53,071 --> 00:38:55,042 And the sad thing for me, and this really is 824 00:38:55,050 --> 00:38:57,054 emotionally grievous for me. 825 00:38:57,062 --> 00:39:00,012 Matthew's Gospel adds the caveat that at this point 826 00:39:00,017 --> 00:39:02,058 in John's ministry, he's in prison. 827 00:39:02,067 --> 00:39:07,000 He can't come out and preach and meet, and, you know, 828 00:39:07,004 --> 00:39:09,079 correct the critics. 829 00:39:09,083 --> 00:39:11,021 He's in prison. 830 00:39:11,029 --> 00:39:13,062 He's defenseless. 831 00:39:13,067 --> 00:39:16,033 Have you wrongly criticized someone? 832 00:39:16,038 --> 00:39:19,033 Have you put yourself in that position of critic to where 833 00:39:19,042 --> 00:39:22,012 you're defining yourself by who or what you're against 834 00:39:22,017 --> 00:39:24,033 rather than for? 835 00:39:24,038 --> 00:39:26,017 Are you that person who takes bits of information, 836 00:39:26,021 --> 00:39:29,067 and enables the worst kind of self-righteous 837 00:39:29,071 --> 00:39:34,071 and religious people, even if they've been offended? 838 00:39:34,079 --> 00:39:36,083 I've been criticized a lot. 839 00:39:36,092 --> 00:39:40,067 Some of it, quite frankly, is totally deserved. 840 00:39:40,071 --> 00:39:46,017 I want to do a bit of pastoral counseling, 841 00:39:46,021 --> 00:39:48,058 just for a moment if you'd be so kind. 842 00:39:48,067 --> 00:39:50,075 And this is not directly taken from the text, 843 00:39:50,083 --> 00:39:54,004 but it's what I've seen in my own life. 844 00:39:54,012 --> 00:39:56,088 And I offer it to you that there are different kinds of critics, 845 00:39:56,096 --> 00:39:59,075 and different kinds of critics, I think, 846 00:39:59,083 --> 00:40:02,012 require different kinds responses. 847 00:40:02,017 --> 00:40:03,067 And in this, I would give you 848 00:40:03,075 --> 00:40:05,017 the words of Billy Graham as well. 849 00:40:05,021 --> 00:40:06,096 In the book "Leadership Secrets of Billy Graham," 850 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:08,083 they came to Billy, who is a hero of mine, 851 00:40:08,088 --> 00:40:11,029 and a wonderful man who I really appreciate. 852 00:40:11,033 --> 00:40:14,071 And I can't imagine the kind of suffering that he endured 853 00:40:14,079 --> 00:40:16,050 from the critics. 854 00:40:16,054 --> 00:40:19,042 And he said that we should turn our critics into coaches, 855 00:40:19,050 --> 00:40:21,000 that even if their information is erroneous, 856 00:40:21,008 --> 00:40:24,075 and their motives are dubious, that ultimately, 857 00:40:24,083 --> 00:40:27,067 we can take those criticisms, see if there is any truth in 858 00:40:27,075 --> 00:40:31,033 them that might make us more like Jesus and better servants 859 00:40:31,038 --> 00:40:34,033 of his cause, and to turn our critics into coaches. 860 00:40:34,038 --> 00:40:35,050 And I appreciate that. 861 00:40:35,054 --> 00:40:37,033 That's a wise word. 862 00:40:37,038 --> 00:40:41,046 But as I've investigated and endured, 863 00:40:41,050 --> 00:40:44,042 I've seen six kinds of critics, and I'm sure there are more. 864 00:40:44,050 --> 00:40:45,088 And some of you would say, "Oh, I know more," 865 00:40:45,096 --> 00:40:47,000 and you would criticize my list. 866 00:40:47,004 --> 00:40:50,071 And you can certainly do that, 867 00:40:50,079 --> 00:40:53,058 and we'll add you as number seven. 868 00:40:53,067 --> 00:40:56,050 Number one, there are theological critics. 869 00:40:56,058 --> 00:40:58,071 These are people who just really disagree with you. 870 00:40:58,079 --> 00:41:01,038 And I would say this, don't just rush to some crazy, 871 00:41:01,046 --> 00:41:04,083 theological opinion, but if you've carefully and prayerfully 872 00:41:04,088 --> 00:41:07,004 studied your Bible, you've checked with Christian scholars, 873 00:41:07,012 --> 00:41:08,083 you've run it by spiritual authority, 874 00:41:08,088 --> 00:41:11,054 you've investigated it through church history, you say, 875 00:41:11,062 --> 00:41:12,083 "You know what? The Bible's true. 876 00:41:12,088 --> 00:41:14,042 "I'm a sinner, Jesus is God. 877 00:41:14,050 --> 00:41:17,071 "There's only one way to salvation, hell is real, 878 00:41:17,079 --> 00:41:19,033 "heaven is real. 879 00:41:19,038 --> 00:41:21,033 This is what I believe." 880 00:41:21,038 --> 00:41:22,042 You know what? 881 00:41:22,050 --> 00:41:25,017 The Mormons are not gonna agree with you. 882 00:41:25,025 --> 00:41:27,046 The Jehovah's Witnesses are not gonna agree with you. 883 00:41:27,050 --> 00:41:29,092 The Orthodox Jews are not gonna agree with you. 884 00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:32,017 The Atheists are not gonna agree with you. 885 00:41:32,025 --> 00:41:34,083 The vague general spiritualists and the yoga-ites are not 886 00:41:34,088 --> 00:41:36,083 going to agree with you. 887 00:41:36,088 --> 00:41:38,088 And the Muslims are not going to agree with you, 888 00:41:38,096 --> 00:41:41,000 and the list goes on and on. 889 00:41:41,008 --> 00:41:43,067 When you meet with them, they may push you or criticize you, 890 00:41:43,071 --> 00:41:46,017 and they may be family, friends, coworkers. 891 00:41:46,021 --> 00:41:48,071 There are people in this church who have converted to Jesus, 892 00:41:48,079 --> 00:41:50,029 whose family has rejected them. 893 00:41:50,033 --> 00:41:54,054 Some have actually told them, "We now consider you dead." 894 00:41:54,062 --> 00:41:58,004 It can be very painful to be criticized from those you love 895 00:41:58,012 --> 00:42:00,058 and have sincere affection for. 896 00:42:00,067 --> 00:42:01,079 What do you do? 897 00:42:01,083 --> 00:42:03,033 You have to accept it. 898 00:42:03,038 --> 00:42:06,033 If the only way for us to have peace is for me to deny Christ, 899 00:42:06,042 --> 00:42:09,029 then I will live with the awkwardness. 900 00:42:09,033 --> 00:42:11,029 I'll accept it. 901 00:42:11,033 --> 00:42:13,017 You should do so humbly, not bitterly, 902 00:42:13,025 --> 00:42:15,088 but you've gotta live with it. 903 00:42:15,096 --> 00:42:18,079 Number two, there is jealousy of success critics, 904 00:42:18,083 --> 00:42:22,058 and that is that your life is going better, 905 00:42:22,067 --> 00:42:24,071 in their estimation, than theirs. 906 00:42:24,079 --> 00:42:27,021 God healed you, he didn't heal them. 907 00:42:27,029 --> 00:42:29,004 God gave you a job. 908 00:42:29,012 --> 00:42:30,017 They're still unemployed. 909 00:42:30,025 --> 00:42:31,038 God gave you a promotion. 910 00:42:31,046 --> 00:42:35,071 They got a demotion. 911 00:42:35,079 --> 00:42:38,079 You are married, and they're single, or reverse. 912 00:42:38,083 --> 00:42:40,025 You're married, and they're single. 913 00:42:40,033 --> 00:42:41,088 Either way, you're jealous. 914 00:42:41,096 --> 00:42:43,079 You'll get that on the way home. 915 00:42:43,083 --> 00:42:47,000 That was funny. 916 00:42:47,008 --> 00:42:50,017 You want to have children, but you're infertile, 917 00:42:50,025 --> 00:42:55,054 and someone that you know has children, jealousy. 918 00:42:55,062 --> 00:42:57,025 You want to be in leadership and ministry, 919 00:42:57,033 --> 00:43:00,062 and you didn't get that opportunity, someone else did. 920 00:43:00,067 --> 00:43:02,012 It's jealousy of success. 921 00:43:02,017 --> 00:43:05,004 They didn't sin against you, they just succeeded, 922 00:43:05,012 --> 00:43:06,075 and you were jealous. 923 00:43:06,083 --> 00:43:07,088 What do you do with people like that? 924 00:43:07,096 --> 00:43:11,033 Well, not to accept or enable their sin, 925 00:43:11,042 --> 00:43:14,000 but my counsel is to serve them. 926 00:43:14,008 --> 00:43:15,004 Maybe they're hurting. 927 00:43:15,012 --> 00:43:16,012 Maybe they're suffering. 928 00:43:16,017 --> 00:43:17,067 Maybe they're struggling. 929 00:43:17,071 --> 00:43:21,046 And maybe they've taken and made the matter personal with you. 930 00:43:21,050 --> 00:43:24,062 And it really doesn't have anything to do with you. 931 00:43:24,067 --> 00:43:26,017 So you serve them, and you love them. 932 00:43:26,025 --> 00:43:28,017 "I'm sorry, you're going through a hard time. 933 00:43:28,025 --> 00:43:29,083 "Is there anything I can do to serve you? 934 00:43:29,092 --> 00:43:30,096 "I do love you. 935 00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:32,058 "I want good for you. 936 00:43:32,067 --> 00:43:35,079 Is there anything I can do to be a good friend to you?" 937 00:43:35,083 --> 00:43:38,025 And it disarms them, and it forces them to work it through 938 00:43:38,033 --> 00:43:42,029 with God, and no longer project that on you. 939 00:43:42,033 --> 00:43:44,062 Number three, there are those who are misinformed. 940 00:43:44,067 --> 00:43:46,079 And what you try to do with them is inform them. 941 00:43:46,083 --> 00:43:47,092 These are people who will say, 942 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,000 "I don't like you because you said or did this." 943 00:43:50,008 --> 00:43:51,088 And you can say, "If I said or did that, 944 00:43:51,096 --> 00:43:54,092 "that would be absolutely right, but the truth is that's not 945 00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:56,079 "what I said or did. 946 00:43:56,083 --> 00:43:58,083 "You have wrong information. 947 00:43:58,092 --> 00:44:01,008 "Let me clarify. 948 00:44:01,017 --> 00:44:02,071 Let me tell you the truth." 949 00:44:02,079 --> 00:44:07,038 This is not excuse making or lying; this is clarifying. 950 00:44:07,046 --> 00:44:09,058 Just tell them the truth. 951 00:44:09,067 --> 00:44:12,042 Number four, sometimes it's personal dislike. 952 00:44:12,050 --> 00:44:17,017 This is not issues of sin, these are issues of style. 953 00:44:17,025 --> 00:44:18,067 They don't like the way you dress. 954 00:44:18,075 --> 00:44:21,025 They don't like your attitude. 955 00:44:21,033 --> 00:44:23,004 They don't like your sense of humor. 956 00:44:23,012 --> 00:44:24,025 They don't like your hobbies. 957 00:44:24,033 --> 00:44:25,088 Not that any of those things are sinful. 958 00:44:25,096 --> 00:44:28,067 Religious people have a very difficult time distinguishing 959 00:44:28,075 --> 00:44:31,017 between sin and style. 960 00:44:31,025 --> 00:44:33,008 "So your style's different than mine, 961 00:44:33,017 --> 00:44:36,067 "you're wicked 'cause I am godly. 962 00:44:36,071 --> 00:44:40,096 All right, not that Christ is the model, I am." 963 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,071 What do you do with those people? 964 00:44:43,079 --> 00:44:46,071 I get this all the time. 965 00:44:46,079 --> 00:44:48,083 You either accommodate them, "Okay, I love you, Grandpa. 966 00:44:48,088 --> 00:44:50,033 "When I'm with you, I know you don't want to look 967 00:44:50,038 --> 00:44:51,033 "at the mohawk. 968 00:44:51,042 --> 00:44:52,058 "I'll wear a hat. 969 00:44:52,067 --> 00:44:55,058 "Okay? All right? 970 00:44:55,067 --> 00:44:57,021 "I know, Grandma, you don't like the tattoo, 971 00:44:57,029 --> 00:44:59,008 "but it is a verse about Jesus. 972 00:44:59,017 --> 00:45:01,042 "So I'll wear long sleeves when I hang out with you. 973 00:45:01,050 --> 00:45:04,033 I'll try to I accommodate you, 'cause I love you." 974 00:45:04,038 --> 00:45:06,038 Or you could just ignore them and say, "I love you. 975 00:45:06,046 --> 00:45:07,096 "We're not gonna ride a tandem bike. 976 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,083 "We're not gonna be BFF. 977 00:45:09,088 --> 00:45:12,096 "It's just not gonna go well. 978 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:17,067 It's just not." 979 00:45:17,075 --> 00:45:21,067 Personal dislike. 980 00:45:21,075 --> 00:45:26,058 This is part of the issue that Jesus has with the Pharisees. 981 00:45:26,067 --> 00:45:28,075 We'll get to that in a moment. 982 00:45:28,083 --> 00:45:30,012 There's also legitimate sin. 983 00:45:30,017 --> 00:45:32,038 This is where you have a sin that you've committed, 984 00:45:32,046 --> 00:45:33,046 or you made a mistake. 985 00:45:33,050 --> 00:45:34,054 You blew it. 986 00:45:34,062 --> 00:45:35,054 You know what you do? 987 00:45:35,062 --> 00:45:37,000 You repent, you own it. 988 00:45:37,004 --> 00:45:39,008 "You're right, I'm wrong. 989 00:45:39,017 --> 00:45:40,012 "That was out of line. 990 00:45:40,017 --> 00:45:41,029 "I gotta make this right. 991 00:45:41,033 --> 00:45:42,075 "I'm asking your forgiveness. 992 00:45:42,083 --> 00:45:44,008 "Jesus died. 993 00:45:44,017 --> 00:45:45,058 "That's how bad this was. 994 00:45:45,067 --> 00:45:47,050 I'm sorry." 995 00:45:47,058 --> 00:45:48,050 It's totally disarming. 996 00:45:48,054 --> 00:45:51,054 You may have to do CPR on someone after you just repent. 997 00:45:51,062 --> 00:45:54,012 They don't see it coming. 998 00:45:54,017 --> 00:45:56,067 And number six, there is take up offense for another person. 999 00:45:56,075 --> 00:45:59,012 There is where person A and person B have a conflict, 1000 00:45:59,017 --> 00:46:03,012 and person C gets involved. 1001 00:46:03,017 --> 00:46:05,050 We call that meddling. 1002 00:46:05,054 --> 00:46:08,038 We call that busybodying. 1003 00:46:08,046 --> 00:46:11,067 I call that annoying. 1004 00:46:11,075 --> 00:46:13,042 People are trying to resolve something, 1005 00:46:13,050 --> 00:46:15,092 and let's say person A and person B 1006 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:17,008 in some sort of conflict. 1007 00:46:17,017 --> 00:46:20,000 It may be a sin, or an offense, or transgression was committed, 1008 00:46:20,008 --> 00:46:23,079 but person B goes and talks to person C. 1009 00:46:23,083 --> 00:46:26,000 And now we call this triangulation. 1010 00:46:26,008 --> 00:46:28,017 We get person C involved. 1011 00:46:28,025 --> 00:46:32,008 And sometimes person C isn't a mediator, 1012 00:46:32,017 --> 00:46:35,004 they're a complicater. 1013 00:46:35,012 --> 00:46:36,033 Like we got a letter recently. 1014 00:46:36,042 --> 00:46:38,017 There's an issue we're dealing with, and it's like, 1015 00:46:38,025 --> 00:46:40,050 someone sent a letter, "We demand this, we demand that. 1016 00:46:40,058 --> 00:46:41,083 "I demand this, I demand that. 1017 00:46:41,088 --> 00:46:42,079 "I'm getting in the middle. 1018 00:46:42,083 --> 00:46:43,088 Dada, dada, dada, da." 1019 00:46:43,096 --> 00:46:45,046 I read the letter, I'm like, "Who is this? 1020 00:46:45,050 --> 00:46:47,092 I don't even know who this is." 1021 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,012 So we call, "Who are you?" 1022 00:46:51,017 --> 00:46:52,042 "I am now in the middle." 1023 00:46:52,050 --> 00:46:53,025 Really? 1024 00:46:53,033 --> 00:46:54,050 That's where all the bullets are flying. 1025 00:46:54,058 --> 00:46:55,096 You sure you want to be there? 1026 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:57,042 I mean, I think it's a good idea. 1027 00:46:57,050 --> 00:46:59,092 Maybe you should stay there, you know? 1028 00:47:00,004 --> 00:47:01,046 Why do you need to get in the middle? 1029 00:47:01,050 --> 00:47:03,033 "Because I have made myself 1030 00:47:03,038 --> 00:47:06,033 "the 'take up offense for another person' superhero, 1031 00:47:06,042 --> 00:47:07,083 "and I have a cape that says 1032 00:47:07,088 --> 00:47:09,050 "'take up offense for another person,' 1033 00:47:09,054 --> 00:47:12,012 and I fly in to resolve the conflict." 1034 00:47:12,017 --> 00:47:14,017 And all of a sudden they align with someone and they're like 1035 00:47:14,025 --> 00:47:18,054 two barrels on a gun, and you gotta deal with both of them. 1036 00:47:18,062 --> 00:47:19,092 You get out of this. 1037 00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:21,096 This doesn't even affect you. 1038 00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,083 What is this, junior high? 1039 00:47:24,092 --> 00:47:27,017 "Sally's really unhappy, now we're really unhappy. 1040 00:47:27,025 --> 00:47:29,000 "There's a whole bunch of us really unhappy. 1041 00:47:29,004 --> 00:47:32,083 We've created a Facebook group about it." 1042 00:47:32,088 --> 00:47:34,042 Really? 1043 00:47:34,050 --> 00:47:36,029 Let A and B deal with it. 1044 00:47:36,033 --> 00:47:38,000 Get person C out. 1045 00:47:38,004 --> 00:47:40,025 And some of you people who are real priestly and pastoral, 1046 00:47:40,033 --> 00:47:43,062 you will think, "Ah-ha, I'm going to help. 1047 00:47:43,067 --> 00:47:45,012 I'm going to be merciful." 1048 00:47:45,017 --> 00:47:47,033 And what you mean is, "I'm going to be meddling, 1049 00:47:47,042 --> 00:47:49,050 I'm going to be enabling." 1050 00:47:49,054 --> 00:47:51,058 It's take up offense for another person. 1051 00:47:51,067 --> 00:47:52,083 You rebuke those people. 1052 00:47:52,092 --> 00:47:54,050 You're not helping. 1053 00:47:54,058 --> 00:47:59,021 You're not mediating, you are meddling. 1054 00:47:59,029 --> 00:48:00,054 Get out. 1055 00:48:00,062 --> 00:48:03,071 Now, back to the story, John is being criticized, I think, 1056 00:48:03,079 --> 00:48:05,083 for five of six reasons. 1057 00:48:05,088 --> 00:48:13,054 What he's not being criticized for, rather, is this, 1058 00:48:13,062 --> 00:48:16,075 number five, he didn't-- he's not sinless, 1059 00:48:16,083 --> 00:48:18,050 but he didn't do anything. 1060 00:48:18,054 --> 00:48:19,067 But you know what? 1061 00:48:19,075 --> 00:48:21,033 There are theological differences. 1062 00:48:21,038 --> 00:48:23,050 He tells the religious people, "You're sinners." 1063 00:48:23,058 --> 00:48:24,092 They say, "No, we're not." 1064 00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,029 Number two, his ministry's growing, theirs is not. 1065 00:48:28,033 --> 00:48:30,038 I think there's some jealousy. 1066 00:48:30,046 --> 00:48:33,004 Misinformed, "We heard he's demon possessed." 1067 00:48:33,012 --> 00:48:36,017 He's not, go check with Jesus. 1068 00:48:36,021 --> 00:48:37,062 Number four, personal dislike. 1069 00:48:37,067 --> 00:48:41,067 He wears camel-hair clothing. 1070 00:48:41,071 --> 00:48:43,012 He lives in the woods. 1071 00:48:43,017 --> 00:48:46,083 He eats bugs and honey, and he yells at people. 1072 00:48:46,092 --> 00:48:51,096 That is a different style. 1073 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,029 "We don't like his wardrobe. 1074 00:48:53,033 --> 00:48:55,004 "We don't like his hygiene. 1075 00:48:55,012 --> 00:48:57,033 "We don't like his diet, and we don't like the fact 1076 00:48:57,042 --> 00:48:59,033 "that he yells at us. 1077 00:48:59,042 --> 00:49:04,050 Just walks out of the woods, just like a crazy guy." 1078 00:49:04,054 --> 00:49:05,067 "Repent!" 1079 00:49:05,075 --> 00:49:09,067 I see him with a big Afro, and bugs in his teeth. 1080 00:49:09,071 --> 00:49:11,083 And all these guys in robes who went to grad school are like, 1081 00:49:11,092 --> 00:49:13,083 "He has emotional woundedness." 1082 00:49:13,092 --> 00:49:16,025 No, he's just upset. 1083 00:49:16,033 --> 00:49:18,067 He doesn't like you. 1084 00:49:18,071 --> 00:49:21,079 And number six, take up offense for another person. 1085 00:49:21,083 --> 00:49:23,079 I am assuming that there were people that he 1086 00:49:23,083 --> 00:49:26,000 called to repentance, and they didn't like it, 1087 00:49:26,008 --> 00:49:28,033 so they went and got their scholar, and their teacher, 1088 00:49:28,042 --> 00:49:31,004 and their counselor, and their rabbi, and their friends, 1089 00:49:31,012 --> 00:49:33,021 and their family, and their team, and their tribe. 1090 00:49:33,029 --> 00:49:36,083 And everybody gets involved, and it's a big mess. 1091 00:49:36,088 --> 00:49:39,012 And that's gonna happen with Herod's family later, 1092 00:49:39,017 --> 00:49:42,029 which leads to the beheading of John. 1093 00:49:42,033 --> 00:49:46,083 If you are a Christian, you will endure criticism. 1094 00:49:46,088 --> 00:49:50,079 And the more you're willing to come out of the closet 1095 00:49:50,083 --> 00:49:53,083 with your faith in Christ, 1096 00:49:53,092 --> 00:49:56,062 not in a Ned Flanders uber-annoying way. 1097 00:49:56,067 --> 00:49:57,096 Just say, "Yeah, I'm a Christian. 1098 00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,000 "I love Jesus. 1099 00:49:59,004 --> 00:50:00,033 "I believe the Bible. 1100 00:50:00,042 --> 00:50:03,004 "Whack me like a piƱata, I know how this is gonna go, 1101 00:50:03,012 --> 00:50:05,000 but that's where I'm at." 1102 00:50:05,008 --> 00:50:06,067 You will be criticized. 1103 00:50:06,071 --> 00:50:08,004 Family, friends, coworkers, neighbors, 1104 00:50:08,012 --> 00:50:12,000 even complete strangers, everyone will give their opinion 1105 00:50:12,008 --> 00:50:15,092 of you, your beliefs, and Christianity, and our church, 1106 00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,046 and Christian history. 1107 00:50:17,050 --> 00:50:18,058 And you've gotta examine, 1108 00:50:18,067 --> 00:50:20,050 "How can I turn these critics into coaches? 1109 00:50:20,058 --> 00:50:24,038 "How, like John, can I endure criticism and critics, 1110 00:50:24,046 --> 00:50:30,012 "and is there a way to respond depending upon the kind 1111 00:50:30,017 --> 00:50:32,017 of criticism I am facing?" 1112 00:50:32,025 --> 00:50:34,092 And what Jesus is saying here is that those who are criticized 1113 00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,000 are in good company, 'cause we're not only in good company 1114 00:50:37,008 --> 00:50:39,029 with John, we're in good company with Jesus. 1115 00:50:39,033 --> 00:50:44,004 Jesus tells us here that he suffered criticism as well. 1116 00:50:44,012 --> 00:50:47,054 Let's go back to that previous slide, the Scriptures. 1117 00:50:47,062 --> 00:50:49,025 Here's the criticism. 1118 00:50:49,033 --> 00:50:50,088 "John the Baptist has come eating no bread, drinking 1119 00:50:50,096 --> 00:50:53,017 "no wine, you say, 'He has a demon.' 1120 00:50:53,021 --> 00:50:54,046 The Son of Man," that is Jesus, 1121 00:50:54,050 --> 00:50:56,067 "Has come eating and drinking, and you say, 'Look at him! 1122 00:50:56,075 --> 00:50:58,050 "'A glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors 1123 00:50:58,058 --> 00:51:00,050 and sinners!'" 1124 00:51:00,054 --> 00:51:02,004 Here's what they say, "John's too dark. 1125 00:51:02,012 --> 00:51:03,017 "Jesus is too light. 1126 00:51:03,025 --> 00:51:04,058 "John's too much of an introvert. 1127 00:51:04,067 --> 00:51:06,083 "Jesus is too much of an extrovert. 1128 00:51:06,092 --> 00:51:09,000 "John is too melancholy. 1129 00:51:09,008 --> 00:51:11,062 "Jesus is too happy. 1130 00:51:11,067 --> 00:51:17,029 John is too much of a loner, and Jesus goes to too many parties." 1131 00:51:17,033 --> 00:51:21,079 See, John and Jesus, they have the same mission, and ministry, 1132 00:51:21,083 --> 00:51:25,004 and message, but they're different men with different 1133 00:51:25,012 --> 00:51:27,025 personalities, and they're operating by different 1134 00:51:27,033 --> 00:51:29,083 callings and convictions. 1135 00:51:29,088 --> 00:51:31,025 One drinks, one doesn't. 1136 00:51:31,033 --> 00:51:32,071 One eats bread, one doesn't. 1137 00:51:32,079 --> 00:51:36,050 They get along just fine, like we should too. 1138 00:51:36,054 --> 00:51:39,008 Religious people criticize them unnecessarily. 1139 00:51:39,017 --> 00:51:41,042 And I love the criticism of Jesus. 1140 00:51:41,050 --> 00:51:43,033 "People like him." 1141 00:51:43,042 --> 00:51:48,033 That's the criticism. 1142 00:51:48,038 --> 00:51:51,008 See, that's religious people. 1143 00:51:51,017 --> 00:51:53,067 See, because Jesus keeps getting invited to parties, 1144 00:51:53,075 --> 00:51:57,054 religious people never have to worry about that. 1145 00:51:57,062 --> 00:52:01,021 Their evenings are all free. 1146 00:52:01,029 --> 00:52:03,000 The sinful people, the tax collectors, 1147 00:52:03,008 --> 00:52:06,033 the people who had a bad reputation, "Hey Jesus, 1148 00:52:06,042 --> 00:52:08,067 we're having a party, do you want to come to our party?" 1149 00:52:08,071 --> 00:52:10,012 Jesus got invited-- 1150 00:52:10,017 --> 00:52:12,025 This will blow your religious mind-- 1151 00:52:12,033 --> 00:52:15,096 Jesus got invited to a lot of parties, and he went. 1152 00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:17,008 Did he get drunk? 1153 00:52:17,017 --> 00:52:18,033 No. 1154 00:52:18,042 --> 00:52:19,050 Was he a glutton? 1155 00:52:19,058 --> 00:52:20,083 No. 1156 00:52:20,088 --> 00:52:24,083 What they said was, "Jesus knows gluttons 1157 00:52:24,088 --> 00:52:26,058 "so he must be a glutton. 1158 00:52:26,067 --> 00:52:28,092 Jesus knows drunkards, he must be a drunkard." 1159 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,067 No, Jesus knows gluttons, and Jesus knows gluttons, 1160 00:52:31,075 --> 00:52:36,054 and drunkards, and Jesus has come as their savior, 1161 00:52:36,062 --> 00:52:38,083 not as their enabler. 1162 00:52:38,092 --> 00:52:42,050 He's not overeating and overdrinking. 1163 00:52:42,058 --> 00:52:44,092 He's doing the same thing John is. 1164 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,033 He's bringing sinners to repentance. 1165 00:52:47,042 --> 00:52:49,046 He's doing it in homes. 1166 00:52:49,050 --> 00:52:50,067 He's doing it in friendships. 1167 00:52:50,075 --> 00:52:52,000 He's doing it in community. 1168 00:52:52,004 --> 00:52:54,046 He's doing it in relationship. 1169 00:52:54,050 --> 00:52:58,038 That's why he keeps getting invited to parties. 1170 00:52:58,046 --> 00:53:02,067 Jesus never sinned, but he did have a good time. 1171 00:53:02,071 --> 00:53:03,075 It's true. 1172 00:53:03,083 --> 00:53:05,075 Jesus was the kind of guy--I don't mean this in 1173 00:53:05,083 --> 00:53:10,000 a disrespectful, or in any way denigrating way of Jesus, 1174 00:53:10,004 --> 00:53:13,054 but if you can see it, Jesus is the kind of guy that some people 1175 00:53:13,062 --> 00:53:15,033 would come and say, "Hey Jesus, we're all gonna eat 1176 00:53:15,042 --> 00:53:17,004 "chicken wings and throw darts tonight. 1177 00:53:17,012 --> 00:53:19,083 Would you like to come and hang out with the guys?" 1178 00:53:19,092 --> 00:53:21,096 Now, you probably wouldn't do that 1179 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:24,092 with a highly religious person because number one, 1180 00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:27,062 you wouldn't want to be with them. 1181 00:53:27,067 --> 00:53:29,004 Number two, they probably wouldn't even know what to do 1182 00:53:29,012 --> 00:53:30,062 with a chicken wing. 1183 00:53:30,067 --> 00:53:32,092 And number three, they'd probably throw the darts at you. 1184 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,050 All right, so you wouldn't want to do that with a religious-- 1185 00:53:35,058 --> 00:53:37,000 but with Jesus, and Jesus would say, 1186 00:53:37,004 --> 00:53:39,017 "Yeah, I'll eat chicken wings, and throw darts with you guys. 1187 00:53:39,021 --> 00:53:41,017 "And we're gonna talk about life, 1188 00:53:41,025 --> 00:53:43,062 "and we're gonna get into some things that matter, 1189 00:53:43,067 --> 00:53:47,017 'cause I love you, and I'm here to save." 1190 00:53:47,021 --> 00:53:50,017 Religious people said, "Oh, that's unacceptable behavior." 1191 00:53:50,025 --> 00:53:52,067 What the religious people don't understand, 1192 00:53:52,071 --> 00:53:54,088 their sin is the worst of all. 1193 00:53:54,096 --> 00:53:58,050 Self-righteousness, and smugness, and religion, 1194 00:53:58,054 --> 00:54:00,096 and self-righteous judgmentalism, 1195 00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,021 and pride, hubris. 1196 00:54:03,029 --> 00:54:07,012 In fact, they're gonna murder Jesus, and the tax collectors, 1197 00:54:07,017 --> 00:54:11,000 and the sinners, and the perverts, they're gonna weep, 1198 00:54:11,008 --> 00:54:15,071 and mourn because someone who loved them died 1199 00:54:15,079 --> 00:54:20,008 at the hands of religious people. 1200 00:54:20,017 --> 00:54:21,062 1201 00:54:21,067 --> 00:54:25,033 Last aspect of John's greatness. 1202 00:54:25,042 --> 00:54:28,000 John was great because he was filled with the Holy Spirit. 1203 00:54:28,008 --> 00:54:31,038 If at this point all I did was told you, "John was great, 1204 00:54:31,046 --> 00:54:33,071 you can be great, aspire to greatness," 1205 00:54:33,079 --> 00:54:36,046 I would be nothing more than a motivational speaker. 1206 00:54:36,050 --> 00:54:41,000 This would be a pep assembly, and we wouldn't even need God. 1207 00:54:41,008 --> 00:54:44,038 But as we look at the story of John in the context of Luke, 1208 00:54:44,046 --> 00:54:47,042 we go back to some statements regarding him in his mother's 1209 00:54:47,050 --> 00:54:52,000 womb, and also some snapshots of his early developing life 1210 00:54:52,004 --> 00:54:54,000 as a young man. 1211 00:54:54,004 --> 00:54:55,092 Luke 1:15, the angel Gabriel said 1212 00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:59,058 "He," that is John, "will be filled with the Holy Spirit, 1213 00:54:59,067 --> 00:55:01,012 even from his mother's womb." 1214 00:55:01,017 --> 00:55:04,075 And Luke 1:66 says, quote, "As he was a young man and growing, 1215 00:55:04,083 --> 00:55:08,054 the hand of the Lord was with him." 1216 00:55:08,062 --> 00:55:10,083 How did John live his great life? 1217 00:55:10,088 --> 00:55:15,083 Not only do we want the ends that John enjoyed, greatness, 1218 00:55:15,088 --> 00:55:19,058 we want the means that John pursued. 1219 00:55:19,067 --> 00:55:21,058 Spirit-filled life. 1220 00:55:21,067 --> 00:55:23,092 What does that mean? 1221 00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:26,054 The Holy Spirit is not an it, 1222 00:55:26,062 --> 00:55:29,042 Jesus says the Holy Spirit is he. 1223 00:55:29,050 --> 00:55:30,075 The Holy Spirit is God. 1224 00:55:30,083 --> 00:55:33,058 The Holy Spirit is the third member of the Trinity. 1225 00:55:33,067 --> 00:55:36,021 The Holy Spirit inspired the writing of Scripture, 1226 00:55:36,029 --> 00:55:39,088 but contrary to the functional teaching of some, 1227 00:55:39,096 --> 00:55:42,079 the Trinity is not Father, Son, and Holy Bible. 1228 00:55:42,083 --> 00:55:45,017 The Trinity is Father, Son, and Holy Spirit 1229 00:55:45,025 --> 00:55:48,021 who writes the Bible, to be sure. 1230 00:55:48,029 --> 00:55:52,083 But information, apart from the Spirit, does not result 1231 00:55:52,088 --> 00:55:54,079 in transformation. 1232 00:55:54,083 --> 00:55:57,083 What the Spirit has inspired to be written, 1233 00:55:57,088 --> 00:56:02,033 he must also awaken, quicken in us. 1234 00:56:02,038 --> 00:56:06,042 And what the Holy Spirit does, he takes the work of Jesus, 1235 00:56:06,050 --> 00:56:11,079 and applies it to us, so that we can live the life of Jesus. 1236 00:56:11,083 --> 00:56:16,038 Or to say it another way, or a better way, friends, 1237 00:56:16,046 --> 00:56:21,083 John's life is not a life lived for God. 1238 00:56:21,088 --> 00:56:25,083 Your life is not to be a life lived for God. 1239 00:56:25,092 --> 00:56:30,033 It's not about what you or I or we do for God. 1240 00:56:30,042 --> 00:56:32,096 It is about what God does for us. 1241 00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:37,075 It's about what God does for us, that our God comes for us, 1242 00:56:37,083 --> 00:56:40,017 that our God lives without sin for us, 1243 00:56:40,025 --> 00:56:43,000 that our God dies as a substitute for us, 1244 00:56:43,008 --> 00:56:45,008 that our God rises for us. 1245 00:56:45,017 --> 00:56:46,096 It's what God does for us. 1246 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,000 We call that justification. 1247 00:56:49,004 --> 00:56:50,083 We're given the righteousness of God, 1248 00:56:50,092 --> 00:56:54,071 and we are declared righteous and just in his sight. 1249 00:56:54,079 --> 00:56:57,017 It's also about what God does in us. 1250 00:56:57,021 --> 00:56:58,083 This is regeneration. 1251 00:56:58,088 --> 00:57:01,083 He takes out our old nature, gives us a new nature, 1252 00:57:01,092 --> 00:57:06,058 gives us the indwelling presence and power of none other than God 1253 00:57:06,067 --> 00:57:11,000 the Holy Spirit, the same God who empowered and enabled not 1254 00:57:11,008 --> 00:57:16,071 only the life of John, but the perfect sinless life of Jesus. 1255 00:57:16,079 --> 00:57:18,096 And it's what God does through us. 1256 00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,075 We call that sanctification and new life, that the person 1257 00:57:22,083 --> 00:57:26,054 and work of Jesus for us, leads to transformation in us, 1258 00:57:26,062 --> 00:57:33,067 and results in new life by God's power to God's glory through us. 1259 00:57:33,075 --> 00:57:37,083 And so you cannot live a great life in the eyes and estimation 1260 00:57:37,092 --> 00:57:42,029 of Jesus, apart from being filled with the Holy Spirit. 1261 00:57:42,033 --> 00:57:47,038 And this is controlled, led, empowered, made new, 1262 00:57:47,046 --> 00:57:53,000 to be someone you cannot be, to live a life you cannot live. 1263 00:57:53,008 --> 00:57:54,079 I was mindful of this. 1264 00:57:54,083 --> 00:57:58,000 Not long ago, our family took a spring break 1265 00:57:58,004 --> 00:58:00,033 down to Ocean Shores. 1266 00:58:00,042 --> 00:58:05,083 And it's the Northwest, so you wear a parka, and gloves, 1267 00:58:05,092 --> 00:58:08,062 and a wool hat, and boots to go to the beach. 1268 00:58:08,067 --> 00:58:13,088 And there were a few days where the wind was very strong, 1269 00:58:13,096 --> 00:58:16,000 and we got some sun breaks, 1270 00:58:16,008 --> 00:58:18,083 so we went and bought kites for the kids. 1271 00:58:18,092 --> 00:58:23,033 And when you first get the kite, the kite is functionally dead. 1272 00:58:23,038 --> 00:58:25,046 This kite has no life. 1273 00:58:25,050 --> 00:58:26,058 It's going nowhere. 1274 00:58:26,067 --> 00:58:28,088 It's doing nothing. 1275 00:58:28,096 --> 00:58:32,017 So we got these big, cool kites, and my 6-year-old daughter, 1276 00:58:32,025 --> 00:58:35,004 Alexie, was with the other kids, but she seemed to be, perhaps, 1277 00:58:35,012 --> 00:58:37,033 the most excited about this kite. 1278 00:58:37,038 --> 00:58:40,067 And she looks like Tinker Bell, blond hair, blue eyes, big eyes. 1279 00:58:40,075 --> 00:58:42,038 And we're taking the kite out of the box, 1280 00:58:42,046 --> 00:58:44,017 and she's just very excited. 1281 00:58:44,021 --> 00:58:46,000 "Dad, what's the kite going to do? 1282 00:58:46,004 --> 00:58:47,033 What it gonna do?" 1283 00:58:47,042 --> 00:58:48,067 I don't know, we gotta get it out of the box. 1284 00:58:48,075 --> 00:58:50,025 We gotta see what happens. 1285 00:58:50,033 --> 00:58:51,046 This is very exciting. 1286 00:58:51,050 --> 00:58:53,071 We get the kite out of the box, put the kite together, 1287 00:58:53,079 --> 00:58:55,033 put it on the string. 1288 00:58:55,042 --> 00:58:56,050 And you know what you need to do? 1289 00:58:56,054 --> 00:59:01,012 Let it go, so that kite can be filled with the power of 1290 00:59:01,017 --> 00:59:05,050 the wind, and it will go wherever the wind takes it, 1291 00:59:05,054 --> 00:59:11,067 and it'll soar as high as the wind chooses. 1292 00:59:11,075 --> 00:59:13,008 And the language in the New Testament, 1293 00:59:13,017 --> 00:59:15,042 "do not be drunk with wine," 'cause everyone wants to be 1294 00:59:15,050 --> 00:59:20,050 filled with something: pride, knowledge, security, comfort, 1295 00:59:20,054 --> 00:59:28,000 love, alcohol, drugs, self-medication, food. 1296 00:59:28,004 --> 00:59:29,083 The Bible says, "Don't be filled with those things. 1297 00:59:29,092 --> 00:59:31,012 "Don't be controlled, and mastered, 1298 00:59:31,017 --> 00:59:32,071 "and governed by those things. 1299 00:59:32,079 --> 00:59:34,033 Be filled with the Holy Spirit." 1300 00:59:34,042 --> 00:59:37,083 Jesus tells Nicodemus that the Holy Spirit is not a force, 1301 00:59:37,088 --> 00:59:40,017 he's a person, but he's like the wind. 1302 00:59:40,021 --> 00:59:43,025 He just absolutely is strong, and powerful, 1303 00:59:43,033 --> 00:59:46,000 and brings life to dead things, 1304 00:59:46,004 --> 00:59:50,033 and causes us to soar by God's grace. 1305 00:59:50,042 --> 00:59:54,021 So we take the kite out of the box, and put the string on it. 1306 00:59:54,029 --> 00:59:58,012 And I hold it, and boom, the kite springs to life. 1307 00:59:58,017 --> 01:00:01,004 And it's dancing, and flying, and the tail is waving. 1308 01:00:01,012 --> 01:00:04,025 And all of a sudden, this kite's alive, and it's soaring. 1309 01:00:04,033 --> 01:00:06,000 And Alexie's looking at me, "Daddy, what do I do? 1310 01:00:06,004 --> 01:00:07,000 What do I do?" 1311 01:00:07,004 --> 01:00:08,000 Let the string out. 1312 01:00:08,004 --> 01:00:10,092 Don't fight it. Don't fight it. 1313 01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:12,017 Let go of the string, let it go. 1314 01:00:12,025 --> 01:00:15,050 She lets the kite go up, up, up, up, it dances. 1315 01:00:15,054 --> 01:00:16,075 It's alive. 1316 01:00:16,083 --> 01:00:17,075 It's soaring. 1317 01:00:17,083 --> 01:00:19,033 The tail is jumping. 1318 01:00:19,038 --> 01:00:21,058 She is cheering and shouting. 1319 01:00:21,067 --> 01:00:23,038 And the whole time I'm thinking of that movie, "Up" 1320 01:00:23,046 --> 01:00:24,062 and I'm like, "Don't let her fly away. 1321 01:00:24,067 --> 01:00:27,029 Don't let her fly away. Don't let her fly away." 1322 01:00:27,033 --> 01:00:28,071 And I told her, "Honey, if it starts to take you 1323 01:00:28,079 --> 01:00:29,083 "off the ground, let go. 1324 01:00:29,088 --> 01:00:34,021 Daddy can totally buy another kite." 1325 01:00:34,029 --> 01:00:35,075 1326 01:00:35,083 --> 01:00:38,000 And what happens is she gets it all the way out 1327 01:00:38,008 --> 01:00:39,050 to the end of the string. 1328 01:00:39,054 --> 01:00:41,092 She doesn't control where the kite goes, the wind does. 1329 01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,092 She doesn't make the kite fly, the wind does. 1330 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,071 She doesn't make it come to life, the wind does that, 1331 01:00:47,079 --> 01:00:50,088 and the kite's filled with the power of the wind. 1332 01:00:50,096 --> 01:00:52,096 And then I watched my daughter, and I sat on a log, 1333 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:54,012 and I just watched her. 1334 01:00:54,017 --> 01:00:57,000 I don't have a better word than magical. 1335 01:00:57,004 --> 01:01:00,004 Any of you dads of daughters with that great delight, 1336 01:01:00,012 --> 01:01:02,017 you know what I'm talking about. 1337 01:01:02,025 --> 01:01:05,000 I watched my little girl dance with a kite, 'cause she's 1338 01:01:05,008 --> 01:01:08,062 a singing, dancing, happy gal. 1339 01:01:08,067 --> 01:01:10,054 And she's dancing with the kite. 1340 01:01:10,062 --> 01:01:12,092 And she's, "Whoop-a-doop- a-doop-a-doop," 1341 01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:14,079 she's singing and dancing with the kite. 1342 01:01:14,083 --> 01:01:17,008 And I thought, "Oh, thank you, Holy Spirit. 1343 01:01:17,017 --> 01:01:19,038 "That's a good picture for me of what it means 1344 01:01:19,046 --> 01:01:22,046 to be Spirit-filled." 1345 01:01:22,050 --> 01:01:24,062 That our life, so many of us because of sin, 1346 01:01:24,067 --> 01:01:26,071 is just in the box. 1347 01:01:26,079 --> 01:01:28,029 It's just dead. 1348 01:01:28,033 --> 01:01:30,067 There's no life. 1349 01:01:30,071 --> 01:01:32,000 And some of us are negotiating with God. 1350 01:01:32,004 --> 01:01:35,046 "You know what, God, I'll take my life out of the box if 1351 01:01:35,050 --> 01:01:39,071 "I get to decide where my proverbial kite goes. 1352 01:01:39,079 --> 01:01:42,062 "You make me happy, you make me healthy, you make me rich. 1353 01:01:42,067 --> 01:01:44,033 "I'll let the kite out of the box. 1354 01:01:44,042 --> 01:01:47,062 "Other than that, I will grieve, quench, resist the Holy Spirit. 1355 01:01:47,067 --> 01:01:49,046 "I'll keep my life in a box. 1356 01:01:49,050 --> 01:01:50,067 "I'm not flying my kite. 1357 01:01:50,075 --> 01:01:53,067 "I'm gonna be like the parable of the spoiled brat. 1358 01:01:53,075 --> 01:01:58,004 "I'm just gonna sit there and complain about kites in general, 1359 01:01:58,012 --> 01:02:05,004 and the wind in particular, but I'm not flying my kite." 1360 01:02:05,012 --> 01:02:08,046 Faith is releasing, relinquishing that which is 1361 01:02:08,050 --> 01:02:11,050 not your own, your life. 1362 01:02:11,058 --> 01:02:15,000 Saying, "God, I trust you, make it alive. 1363 01:02:15,004 --> 01:02:16,071 "Fill it. 1364 01:02:16,079 --> 01:02:19,033 "Direct me wherever you want me to go. 1365 01:02:19,038 --> 01:02:22,067 Cause me to be whomever you want me to become." 1366 01:02:22,071 --> 01:02:25,038 And at this point if I was a false teacher, I would tell ya, 1367 01:02:25,046 --> 01:02:28,004 "Because God wants you to soar to new heights, 1368 01:02:28,012 --> 01:02:31,096 and be an absolutely great victor like John!" 1369 01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:34,083 And I would forget to tell you that he was in prison, 1370 01:02:34,088 --> 01:02:38,012 poor, and got his head chopped off, 1371 01:02:38,017 --> 01:02:40,033 and that was the greatest Spirit-filled life 1372 01:02:40,038 --> 01:02:43,092 of any mere mortal. 1373 01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,083 Are you willing to be who God wants you to be? 1374 01:02:46,092 --> 01:02:49,046 Are you willing to go where God wants you to go? 1375 01:02:49,050 --> 01:02:54,096 Are you willing to suffer what God wants you to suffer? 1376 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,079 John is the greatest man who ever lived. 1377 01:02:57,083 --> 01:03:01,029 Wasn't rich, wasn't powerful. 1378 01:03:01,033 --> 01:03:02,092 Didn't live long. 1379 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:09,012 His reputation was destroyed, and his body was beheaded. 1380 01:03:09,017 --> 01:03:13,012 Oh, but what a good ride it was. 1381 01:03:13,017 --> 01:03:16,050 What a great kite John was. 1382 01:03:16,054 --> 01:03:21,050 He flew high, he flew strong. 1383 01:03:21,058 --> 01:03:26,021 That's such a better life than a life 1384 01:03:26,029 --> 01:03:29,033 that never gets out of the box. 1385 01:03:29,038 --> 01:03:31,075 I'll close with something that I don't even know what it means, 1386 01:03:31,083 --> 01:03:34,083 but I give it to you to meditate on. 1387 01:03:34,088 --> 01:03:38,000 Jesus says, "Yet the one who is least in the kingdom of God is 1388 01:03:38,008 --> 01:03:40,000 greater than he." 1389 01:03:40,008 --> 01:03:41,017 I read all the commentators. 1390 01:03:41,021 --> 01:03:44,000 They don't know what it means either. 1391 01:03:44,004 --> 01:03:45,092 They use big words. 1392 01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:51,017 That's what commentators do when they don't know what it means. 1393 01:03:51,025 --> 01:03:54,067 It's not clear, but it's compelling, that John had not 1394 01:03:54,075 --> 01:03:57,062 yet seen Jesus die, had not yet seen Jesus rise, 1395 01:03:57,067 --> 01:04:00,008 had not yet seen the Holy Spirit poured out 1396 01:04:00,017 --> 01:04:02,017 on the day of Pentecost. 1397 01:04:02,025 --> 01:04:05,029 And the least in the kingdom of God by the grace of God 1398 01:04:05,033 --> 01:04:08,046 and the power of the Holy Spirit is greater than John. 1399 01:04:08,050 --> 01:04:12,033 It's not clear, but it's compelling. 1400 01:04:12,038 --> 01:04:15,075 Father God, I pray for our people individually 1401 01:04:15,083 --> 01:04:18,004 and corporately. 1402 01:04:18,012 --> 01:04:21,000 I pray, Lord God, for those who are here and have never truly 1403 01:04:21,008 --> 01:04:25,021 repented of sin, that they would repent to you for salvation, 1404 01:04:25,029 --> 01:04:28,021 that they would repent to others for reconciliation. 1405 01:04:28,029 --> 01:04:30,054 I pray for those, Lord God, who would hear this message, 1406 01:04:30,062 --> 01:04:34,054 and their deep sins and secrets that they just need to come 1407 01:04:34,062 --> 01:04:41,079 clean with and walk in the light from, that they would. 1408 01:04:41,083 --> 01:04:46,075 God, may we not by your grace accept religious repentance, 1409 01:04:46,083 --> 01:04:49,058 pagan repentance, worldly sorrow, mere confession, 1410 01:04:49,067 --> 01:04:53,038 blame shifting, minimizing, or excuse making. 1411 01:04:53,046 --> 01:04:57,067 May we enjoy this great gift of repentance. 1412 01:04:57,075 --> 01:05:02,092 May we, Lord God, by your grace, repent, call others to repent, 1413 01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:07,029 endure impossible people, suffer unnecessary criticism, 1414 01:05:07,033 --> 01:05:10,067 be filled with the Holy Spirit, and by your grace, 1415 01:05:10,075 --> 01:05:16,071 get our life out of the box, to come alive, filled, led, 1416 01:05:16,079 --> 01:05:21,092 guided, transformed, empowered to dance with you, Lord God. 1417 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:26,029 By the power of the Holy Spirit in Jesus' name, Amen. 1418 01:05:26,033 --> 00:00:00,000